Friday, May 22, 2015
Friday, May 22, 2015 Pallav Gogoi No comments
This is a million dollar question and guys around the world are confused. Woman known for their extremely unpredictable behavior seldom discloses their likes and dislikes and mostly they won't tell what they want. Most guys think that they like a good nice guy who is romantically active while women in their silent fantasies crave for something else. In most cases, a nice guy is often friendzoned while the bad guys who hardly knows how to speak to a girl takes all the pleasures home.
Nice guys are always busy impressing girls by doing nice things like gifting, waiting for them long hours in the coffee shops and writing long love letters while a bad guy does nothing like that. They are not concerned about the likes and dislikes of a woman while they surely know how to woo them point blank. Most nice guys have experienced a rejected date while bad guys make the girls wait for them. Actually most bad guys play tough to get and carry a masculine look, which attracts female. Males should be like males and any female attributes in males make them unattractive.
I have seen many good looking girls hanging around with roadside romeos while nice guys roaming around single with their headphones on. To be good or not is the main question now, which men from all ages are trying to find out. Women in India are mostly fond of guys who are good-looking, rich and practical. You have really little chance of getting a woman if they say - you are really nice. This is the end of your struggle. The moment they tell this, you are friendzoned and will be used like recycle bins after that. Well, these are only my opinion. What's your take on this?
Thursday, May 14, 2015
Thursday, May 14, 2015 Pallav Gogoi No comments
There's nothing like a Writer's silence. This is the period, when he goes through various emotions but unfortunately he fails to scribble down his thoughts. He stumbles against stones, he feels dizzy and finally he goes through a period of extreme silence. The writing virtually takes a back seat and he goes into a thinking mode. During this stage he tries to do millions of other things like socializing, giving time to a new relationship, making friends, sharing, shopping etc. however things generally don't satiate his inner urge to discover his true self. The itch always follows him. The temporary phase slowly passes by and slowly he rejoins the missed words, emotions and experiences with ease. He comes alive again through his words.
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Thursday, January 15, 2015
Thursday, January 15, 2015 Pallav Gogoi No comments
India is a land of opportunities and here women are doing equally well in the job market. Unlike yester years women in India are becoming more independent. They are vocal about their rights, straightforward in dealing with problems and equally emotional about people they care about. Although, in this fast paced life, there’s no time, women in India are doing everything for keeping a balance between work and life.
I was completely amazed to see some interesting women centric job profiles coming up however women in India are capable of giving a tough fight to its male counterpart in any given field. Working women are always active. They are more focused about their goals in life and their priorities. Although they may look ultra-professional from outside, they actually have a very soft side inside. Working women are definitely more serious about their relationships with their partners.
Woman staying at home like a regular housewife miss out various fun. Their main priority is only to keep the house clean, cook, take care of kids and watch daily soaps. They also gain weight fast because they have no serious work to do. Indian housewives typically gain weight and are found strolling in the neighborhood park. Unfortunately they realize about their weight after a long time. While working women are always on their toes, attending meetings, travelling, eating less oily food which eventually makes them gorgeous. They keep themselves busy and their mind has enough room for creativity.
There are so many women in India, who loves to stay inside however they never realize that by doing this they are killing their skills. Sitting at house is like a drug addiction which will eventually make you dumb. Working women surely knows this which is why they prosper. They are good at everything from cooking to taking care of their partners.
They hardly indulge in small talks. They have a world of their world and their independence is their greatest weapon to kick away their blues. I don’t know how happy Indian housewives are but I definitely know there is huge lot of pressure over them. They have to listen to everyone and act accordingly. They have less freedom which makes them vulnerable. In order to break the monotony, women should seriously think about the pros and cons of taking a working life or a life of house wife. It’s perfectly fine to have a choice and I respect everyone’s view. These are only my opinion, feel free to leave your comments.
Wednesday, December 31, 2014
Wednesday, December 31, 2014 Pallav Gogoi No comments
2014 saw a meteoric rise of use of selfies. Frankly, I am doing this since 2004. Clicking selfies was my pastime affair, I thoroughly enjoyed it. From Oscars to wedding celebrations, couples to big time politicians, selfies from Mars to extreme clicks from Burj Khalifa, everyone is so very addicted to this now. Narcissism at its best but nobody is complaining. Taking selfies is one of the best thing one could do to preserve a moment especially it’s applicable for couples in honeymoon, they can now flaunt their moments of joy with this wonderful thing.
One of my friends, who regularly post selfies on Facebook, helped him to get an admirer for life, another girl who got huge motivation by posting selfies on Instagram from her friends during her post-breakup weight loss regime. She actually lost few more pounds! Posting selfies on social networking platforms became a regular phenomenon in 2014.
Things change, people change, but the smile and pout of yours never changes. Clicking selfies regularly eventually gives you an idea about your transformation, your mood swings, and your life at large. It’s a liberating experience for sure. Other reason behind the meteoric rise of selfies is the advent of WhatsApp that lets you share your image with your friends and family anytime. Selfies enable you to make a good purchase decision while you are shopping all by yourself. Clicking selfies no more is regarded as pompous rather it’s the new cool that everyone is trying to wear these days. I hope new things will come next year, new moments will be created in everyone’s life, and a brand new word will come into existence. Till then, we are totally satisfied with these Selfies! Happy New Year in advance.
P.S: Don’t forget to click selfies and post on Facebook. I am sure you will get those likes and comments!
Thursday, December 11, 2014
Thursday, December 11, 2014 Pallav Gogoi No comments
This is a letter to my lost friend with whom I have lost touch; I sincerely want you to come back as you are very important to me. If you are one of them reading, please send me an email or inbox me your number on FB. I will be waiting for you. I have not updated nor written anything interesting however I would like to write as soon as I get your response. If you are reading my blog secretly, please feel free to contact me soon as I have something interesting to tell. I am sure, you will.
Thursday, June 12, 2014
Thursday, June 12, 2014 Pallav Gogoi No comments
I have a small studio apartment in some corner of this earth, where I create dreams, I see them translating into realities. I speak less because my mind always does things beyond the imagination of a human being. Some people just do their regular jobs, they smile less, earn big money but never dwell in simplicity, they are unable to create those fairytales, they are mechanical, they are practical unlike me. My eyes always visualize the unseen, my ears always hear the unheard, my body always travels beyond the boundaries. I am no God, I am just normal creature who believes in miracles, who believes in hopes, who loves criticism, who loves the chaos, who is so much delectable, who never gets angry.
Lately, I have developed resistance to all the hard hitting stones. I am learning to live, I am learning to take responsibility, I am doing things I always desired. I have found Moksha in my living room, my heart is pumping more, my mind is peaceful, I am in my own kingdom.
The factory of love that I have started is running fine; all the lilies in my balcony are giving more fragrance like never before. I am in love with someone, someone who is absolutely gorgeous, someone who knows what I am and what I can do. I am feeling like a master again, I started blogging again; I am no more a depressed soul. All my mood swings vanished, all my shyness just disappeared, I am absolutely sane now. Some known souls read my blog secretly, some praises my words, some discard them as junk, some take them home.
I feel like a superstar when someone appreciates while I never get disheartened if they feel I write crap. I follow no grammar, I follow no English rule, I just follow my heart, I just write what makes me feel good. Tonight, there was rain, inside and outside which made me scribble down my thoughts, my happiness, my love for that special soul. Thank you for everything.