Rejection Phobia - A Typical Male Syndrome

Blind dates, long distance affairs, telephonic relations, pen friends, childhood crushes and a typical male behind them all! Everyone is unique, every man is different. Yet, the fear of rejection always lurks like an inevitable shadow around an urban man. So, let’s find out more about this typical male syndrome.

Ex Girlfriends, Ghosts and That Secret Potion of Desire

Sweet melodies of yesteryears often soothe his soul. Confused past, hazy memoirs and long drives in his father’s old gypsy illuminates his apartment. The shadows of his ex girlfriends keep haunting him. Those larger than life greeting cards, those soft toys, those bracelets, those watches, those letters are locked inside his closet. Time changes, feelings evolve, old friends reunites. The air never remains the same.

How to Tweet Like Jim Morrison

Microblogging! The new addition to the content hungry universe is making everyone bit crazy. Some people are investing hefty sum of money to gain followers, some folks tweeting extra sensible quotes, some individuals trying to be little humorous, the celebrities gaining millions of followers overnight and some people are still dazed. They retweet, copy paste some old quotations, sometimes news and views and most of the times they just keep gazing at the time line without having any words to write.

Bedroom Story - What Indian Women Want In Bed?

Indian women are flawless, intelligent and wild in bed. They know the art of taming a wild stallion, they knows the magic of weaving a satisfying tale. Everyone is unique and every girl has their priorities.

Winter Loneliness - Why Loneliness is Ecstatic?

The music of David Gilmour (On an Island) is creating a dreamlike ambience; the loner is busy writing his chronicle in his studio apartment, he is capturing the ecstasy of being lonely in an overcrowded city. He is mutely inhaling the drifting joy and the lingering silence, he is growing from within, he is catching the stars, and he is alive…

Thursday, February 11, 2016

Impact of Valentine's Day on Singles

Valentine's Day is probably the most dreaded day for Singles. They just want to skip this very day or hide somewhere in a cave to protect themselves from the PDA explosions taking place everywhere. From malls to restaurants, metro stations to abandoned forts, from Facebook to Instagram. There's open public display of affection. Valentine's day is considered to be the day for flaunting love however there are many people in this very own planet of ours still waiting or experiencing a breakup phase. For singles, Valentine's Day is like a funeral day. They keep gazing at computer screen or wait for someone to call them and wish but there's no missed call or whatsapp messages waiting in their inbox, which increases the paranoia. Facebook timelines get filled with check-ins, selfies and gifts. They keep liking and gazing and waiting and finally buys a bottle of wine from the nearest wine shop and celebrates V- day in gloom. It's not an easy day for singles however there's always a silver lining. Singles too have advantages which they may not realize.

There's nothing to be jealous or angry about others because nothing is permanent in life. Today you may be single and free but you may not stay like this forever. You are destined to get a suitable partner and get hitched hence it's your time to enjoy your space with full freedom. You are free to flirt with anyone without feeling that guilt which committed ones go through. Take Valentine's Day in the right spirit and instead of whining about not having someone special, go out and party with friends. This Valentine's day, just don't stare at your computer screen. The anti-Valentine's day club is much stronger and active during this day and they try to share jokes about the committed ones. The war between the singles and committed starts but in reality both these groups envy each other in some form or another.

The advent of Valentine's Day - the day of love is not only about loving your partner but also showing your love for the people you love hence the singles can go ahead and wish each and everyone without guilt. Enjoying singlehood is sometimes better. Being single gives you freedom to invest a lot of money on yourself. You have your own personal space and you don't have to worry about keeping your house clean. This Valentine's day, you may still doing your regular job but you should take out sometime to do that very thing that you love most and that can be anything. From listening to your favorite music to enjoying your favorite movie, you have the liberty and power.  It's advisable not to look at others and cry rather it's advisable to do something that others desire. Valentine's Day is just one day in the entire year that makes you feel the need to have a partner but if you take it as any other day, you won't suffer.

There are millions of singles around the world who will be feeling the same but there are those winners who actually make use of this day to do productive and entertaining that couples can't even think of. There are thousands of unmarried people doing extremely well in their life without ever complaining about their needs to find a partner hence being single this Valentine's Day is no big deal. Few options for singles for making their valentine's day special includes a nice therapy at a spa, attending a speed dating session, watching a horror movie, going for a single meet up party etc. Making use of this day in a positive way can make singles shine. It's only about a day and singles will do everything to make it memorable. This Valentine's day, do something that will make you happy rather than thinking about not having a valentine. I think it's perfectly fine to stay single and free.


Wish a Happy Valentine's Day in advance!


This blog post is inspired by the blogging marathon hosted on IndiBlogger for the launch of the #Fantastico Zica from Tata Motors. You can apply for a test drive of the hatchback Zica today.

Wednesday, February 10, 2016

Impact of Unrequited Love and the Birth of a Pickup Artist

He went for a solo ride on Valentine's Day. He was mocked by his friends for not having a girlfriend, he was traumatized by his relatives for not having a wife, he was tortured every day. Being single became a curse for him. He was often reminded about his single status among his friends group. The amount of loneliness in his galaxy was above any other average guy. He tried to hit the gym to get six pack abs, tried to join language classes to find his partner, went to weddings for getting a date but he failed miserably in all his attempts. His bought SLR and took up fashion photography but nothing really worked for him. Girls stayed miles away from him and the ones who are close, often friend zoned him. There was a rising frustration in his kingdom. He was unable to face the ruthless Facebook timeline on every Valentine's Day. The PDAs destroyed his self esteem; he became a shadow in the crowded subways and busy bistros. In search of love, he travelled miles but everyone used him like a toy. Whenever he approached a girl, he was either brozoned or friendzoned. Everyone took advantage of his singledom. 

He couldn't find out the reason for getting rejected. May be he was ugly as he was not sure how he looked. In most of his free times, he tried to improve himself but nothing worked for him as he could see all his friends moving ahead in the relationship game. He concentrated a lot in his career and got a good job but still no luck. Nothing really worked for him. Finally, his parents helped him to find a partner but unfortunately she also rejects him. The height of desperation increased so much that he even thought of leaving the country. Are you still single? The question started haunting him so badly that even dead people started mocking him. He was depressed and paranoid but never lost his hope of finding a partner. He started visiting brothels and watched adult videos to suppress his hunger. He started hating love and became a lust worshipper. He started taking part in underground communities to learn the art of seduction; he visited online dating sites for getting date and approached random girls in metro stations. He failed miserably in all his attempts.


The impact of rejection was so high in his life that he had not guts left to talk to any girl and then he met Joe - the self proclaimed dating couch and the most desired pick up artist. Joe motivated him and gave him quick lessons to attract a girl. He followed his footsteps and eureka - that's a match! His tips clicked, he found a girl who somehow said yes. After 3-4 dates, they made love but their relationship broke after few days. He tried again to woo someone much older than him and succeeded. Things became rosy for him as he started going on serial dates. Now Peter is a dating couch, yes his name is Peter. Peter is one of the successful pickup artists in India. But how Peter turned so desirable overnight? What's the secret potion he drank or what seduction lesson Joe gave him? Everyone wanted to know but Peter never disclosed them the secrets of his upheaval from a loser to a charmer. Today Peter is no more watching movies alone, he is no more running behind shadows. He is having partners, a lot of them. After Peter met Joe, Peter actually stopped trying hard. He started finding his true self, he started looking around the positivity, he stopped acting like someone else. He actually started living his own life. Peter was a good writer and he followed his dream. His book became a bestseller and now Peter is not lonely. He is having admirers and followers, and yes his partner cuddling him all night long. Peter is no pick-up artist but a fictional character born out of rejection and humiliation. 

This blog post is inspired by the blogging marathon hosted on IndiBlogger for the launch of the #Fantastico Zica from Tata Motors. You can apply for a test drive of the hatchback Zica today.

Monday, February 08, 2016

Impact of Butts Breaking The Internet

Every men are crazy is about well rounded female butts. It's one of the greatest assets a woman can flaunt. The power of well shaped bottom is immense. Recently we have seen Kim Kardashian's extremely beautiful butt broke the Internet, which proves how crazy men are to take a glimpse of the most delightful thing on earth. A woman with toned and nicely shaped backside looks good in every outfit. It can be Indian wear or western outfit, a woman with butt needs no pretty face to attract man from any age group. It's a butt crazy world for sure because every time you see a girl with gorgeous backside, your heads automatically turn. It's very natural thing among men in India. A well toned butt makes you fantasize. It also enhances your foreplay sessions. Women in India are born with divine curves. Well, talking about Indian curves may sound vulgar but the fact is everyone in their dreams, want to date a girl who flaunts a beautifully crafted butt.

It's one of the most attractive features in woman’s body that men generally look for while choosing his or her prospective partner. Butt pictures are breaking the Internet because it's the most desired part of women's body that men want to see. Most women are hitting the gym, running in the neighborhood park, wearing tight jeans for accentuating their curves. They love to flaunt them in weddings, clubs and everywhere where men gather. Attaining a well toned butt is what woman craves for. Unlike yesteryears, things are changing for good. Woman in India know how to dress and that subtle fashion of revealing their assets with grace is what make them the most desirable creation on Earth.


Gone are the days of skinny tall models, it's time for curves and well rounded butts. Slim girls without curves look good in pictures but voluptuous women reside in the minds of Indian men. Some people may say it's those pair of eyes, some may say it's those long legs, some may say it's the purity of soul but the fact is, in the law of attraction the impact of butt is more than all other features of a woman's body and soul. I am not objectifying or trying to prove a point, I am just highlighting the deepest fantasies of Indian men. Gone are the days of cleavage fixation, it's only all about butts now. Different butt shapes include Square, Heart/Pear, Inverted and Round and it's the round half moon like butts and pear-shaped ones attract men the most. Heath wise, butt fat is harmless hence there's no reason girls for shedding them. If you are still at the age of selfie, you must be running late because new age men love bathroom belfie which meanwhile breaking Instagram and Tinder in a big way. These are only my observations; I hope you must be having your own perspective. Do let me know.

This blog post is inspired by the blogging marathon hosted on IndiBlogger for the launch of the #Fantastico Zica from Tata Motors. You can apply for a test drive of the hatchback Zica today.

Why Indian Men Like Older Women?

Older women are matured, well dressed and understanding compared to the mindless selfie generation. Unlike yesteryears, today's generation of men look for maturity and experience in a relationship. Younger girls don't attract the whims and fancies of a thinking men however with age comes that grace. Older women are independent, no-nonsense bunch of people who knows their priorities. Younger girls are less experienced in terms of building a relationship. Every girl is unique but age plays a major role in shaping her personality. Older girls with experience are more tolerable than the younger lot. They know how to tackle a situation with ease and are not dependent on others. They are decision makers and they perfected this art after years of experience.

Although the idea of younger girls looking better than the older ones is prevalent in the minds of everyone but beauty is not only about a pretty face. Beauty is something, which is a combination of good looks and maturity. There's no use of having a gorgeous face if you don't have a beautiful mind. Why Indian men like older women? The answer is very simple. Men by nature likes to me understood. The level of understanding a younger man and an older woman have is excellent. Things are changing for good and the man-made notions about dating are actually taking a U-turn. Unlike yesteryears, when every man wanted a virgin girl, the concept of attraction is simply changing. Now most men prefer to date an older woman who must be more experienced in every possible aspect of life.

Women hiding age, trying to look younger and hitting the gym for attracting men however it's not always the case with men. Few men hide their age because just like women, men also become much more attractive with passing year. Youth is a symbol of fertility and Adulthood signifies matured fertility. An older woman is much more attractive than a younger woman because with time they have maintained and groomed themselves so brilliantly that they often find their college pictures horrible.

The impact of older woman in Indian men surely is huge. Older woman may be dominating in some cases but they are always smooth and stable in most of the cases. The idea of dating an older woman is itself an excitement. You don't have to hide your imperfections to impress them. They are tolerant and they can easily see the potential in you. But there are always exceptions; some younger girls are matured enough in today's world. There are few girls that fall in that category, but if you find one, you should never let them go away from your life.


 Younger girls with brains are difficult to find. What I write can make no sense because I know many of you may find it hard to resist the fact that actually most men in India look for maturity in a relationship. Your partner may be the best looking girl in the world but if she doesn't understand you, there's no use of flaunting your trophy girlfriend or wife. Relationship is not about how presentable your partner is but how comfortable you are with your partner. The compatibility is the game changer and most men find a healthy compatibility with an older woman. The impact of urbanization and exposure to the vast library of knowledge through Internet is changing the mindset of everyone. Aging gracefully is what our generation is looking forward too. No matter how old or how young you are, you deserve to have fun. One shouldn't get distracted by age. You are human being hence you are destined to age. Instead of hiding age and grey hair, people should flaunt them with ease. 

This blog post is inspired by the blogging marathon hosted on IndiBlogger for the launch of the #Fantastico Zica from Tata Motors. You can apply for a test drive of the hatchback Zica today.


Saturday, February 06, 2016

The Art of Seduction - How to Seduce an Indian Woman?

There are many dating experts  saying different things but seducing an Indian woman is not that easy. Every woman is unique and respecting their uniqueness and their passion is what is required to make a good bonding with the woman of your dreams. Understanding her interest is what makes you succeed in dating game. Women in India are fond of men who are physically and mentally sound. Good looks hardly matters for seducing a woman. Woman in India are extremely good in scanning, they can scan you from top to bottom within a second without your knowledge, so sometimes it becomes necessary to take care of minute details before you approach a girl. Your priorities change with age and hence the taste will differ for every age group. Women in India are very sensitive therefore they could feel your touch easily. It's always welcoming to touch them softly. Confidence is key as Indian women love confident men. Are you confident enough? That doesn't matter; you can still attract them with your chivalry. Seducing Indian woman is an art and perfecting this art is what makes you that perfect guy who can leave that fantastic impact in anyone's heart in the very first interaction. The art of seduction involves very less talking and more body language.

The silent ones often take away the best ones with their actions. You don't have to try hard for attracting a woman; if you try hard you fail. Seducing a woman is easier if you can talk to her without thinking a lot. A woman if interested in you will appreciate your crazy passion and will always be available for you. Things won't change for them if they are genuinely interested. Woman in India are extremely beautiful and you will be that lucky one if you seduce one. A man usually looks for a sexually attractive woman while choosing their partner that could also be the criteria for Indian woman. Your physical appearance does play a major role in the game of love and lust. If you are thinking of someone whom you love, you should go ahead and tell them. It's not always the things you believe actually are true. Indian women are mysterious beings. You won't know how she can give you that most memorable surprise. Reading a women's heart is not that easy but finding the right chord can do wonders. In order to date and seduce her, you have to show your loyalty towards her. Nobody wants to date a rolling stone. Attraction is a natural process and you never know how you get attracted to someone. You can't force your love, it comes naturally.

The way you speak also plays a major role in seducing an Indian woman. It's always safe to avoid talking about yourself. If the woman you fantasize talks a lot, talk to her, if she is the silent types, talk to her more. It's always your first impact that matters the most. Making a first impression is what matters in the art of seduction. Sometimes things just click between people at the first glance however some relationships take time to grow. What's the impact of your presence in her life is what matters most? A man without trying hard can make a lasting impression by staying true to himself without hurting their feelings and by understanding her needs. Satisfying her desires instantly is the key to seduce an Indian woman. You will encounter various women in your lifetime. There will be school friends, college friends, colleagues, neighbors, travel mates, blogger friends and family friends. You get attracted to only few hence taking the right step in the right time will make you shine. Sometimes you lose your chances by delaying and not recognizing things around you carefully. Hence, it's important to express what you feel. You won't be disappointed if you get rejected but you will surely be on seventh heaven if you get what you want. Express your feelings with ease, I bet you will have the best moment of your life. Indian woman loves to be pampered. Seduce her with your actions not those vulgar ones. Be subtle and start according to the hint provided by her. February is the month of love, make it awesome. 

This blog post is inspired by the blogging marathon hosted on IndiBlogger for the launch of the #Fantastico Zica from Tata Motors. You can apply for a test drive of the hatchback Zica today.

Friday, February 05, 2016

Dating a Blogger Friend



Indian BloggersBlogging, once considered to be an online diary is now a big time activity around the globe. People are now coming forward with newer ideas everyday through their blogs. The impact of personal blogs is tremendously increasing as most readers can connect with the writing of the author. Niche blogs are even doing better in terms of earning money but the emergence of arthouse blogging is something people are interested most. Blogs that produce offbeat content. They are ones who gets the most loyal fans and secret admirers. Blogging not only increases your online presence but also helps you find the right kind of partner you are looking for. Dating a blogger friend is like a crazy experience because you know them inside out through their write ups. A male blogger writing poetry can easily connect to another female blogger through blogs. Your blogs can act as the perfect cupid. You may never know, you may just get lucky by posting about broken relationship or your understanding about likes and dislikes of the opposite gender.

Bloggers are passionate bunch of people looking for appreciation and brickbats, and someone who reads your blog regularly can easily find out those flaws about your writing. The connection starts with your blog and ends up in your heart. Dating a blogger friend means too much of artsy talks and unpredictable moves that you might enjoy. There's nothing like meeting a blogger and finally spending quality time in some cozy corner of the world. People hang around in social networking platforms to find love but what about blogs? Still people are unaware about the power of writing and blogging and only the ones who knows the art takes away the trophy.


Your blog is your playground and you have the remote button to write about things you are passionate about. In order to shine amid the crowd, you have to write and think like a mad guy who is extremely sober after drinking. Your thoughts should pester you throughout your sleep; your ideas should jump and take shape easily. Unlike yesteryears, I started writing less poetry and more non-fiction because I felt my poems are too fake. I have lost the power of writing meaningful prose hence I took refuge of writing stuff that are real and adds value. The impact of blogging in my life is huge as it made me realize the power of written word. I started writing again after reading about Blog Fiction, which is a brand new genre of literally fiction and hence I am not wasting my time here. I found my niche, and I coined it arthouse blogging. So, if you are still not convinced that writing a blog can give you a date, you may be wrong because you write a blog for a reason and that reason can be anything. Till now I haven't felt that goose bumps, which I used to feel after completing my write ups but it's ok not to feel that sometimes.

This blog post is inspired by the blogging marathon hosted on IndiBlogger for the launch of the #Fantastico Zica from Tata Motors. You can apply for a test drive of the hatchback Zica today.