Rejection Phobia - A Typical Male Syndrome

Blind dates, long distance affairs, telephonic relations, pen friends, childhood crushes and a typical male behind them all! Everyone is unique, every man is different. Yet, the fear of rejection always lurks like an inevitable shadow around an urban man. So, let’s find out more about this typical male syndrome.

Ex Girlfriends, Ghosts and That Secret Potion of Desire

Sweet melodies of yesteryears often soothe his soul. Confused past, hazy memoirs and long drives in his father’s old gypsy illuminates his apartment. The shadows of his ex girlfriends keep haunting him. Those larger than life greeting cards, those soft toys, those bracelets, those watches, those letters are locked inside his closet. Time changes, feelings evolve, old friends reunites. The air never remains the same.

How to Tweet Like Jim Morrison

Microblogging! The new addition to the content hungry universe is making everyone bit crazy. Some people are investing hefty sum of money to gain followers, some folks tweeting extra sensible quotes, some individuals trying to be little humorous, the celebrities gaining millions of followers overnight and some people are still dazed. They retweet, copy paste some old quotations, sometimes news and views and most of the times they just keep gazing at the time line without having any words to write.

Bedroom Story - What Indian Women Want In Bed?

Indian women are flawless, intelligent and wild in bed. They know the art of taming a wild stallion, they knows the magic of weaving a satisfying tale. Everyone is unique and every girl has their priorities.

Winter Loneliness - Why Loneliness is Ecstatic?

The music of David Gilmour (On an Island) is creating a dreamlike ambience; the loner is busy writing his chronicle in his studio apartment, he is capturing the ecstasy of being lonely in an overcrowded city. He is mutely inhaling the drifting joy and the lingering silence, he is growing from within, he is catching the stars, and he is alive…

Sunday, February 09, 2014

No More Postcards From Your Ex-Partner...

When someone leaves you, you shouldn’t feel depressed because there is a meaning to every end. One day you are all alone. You wake up and find no missed calls, no messages, no whatsapp pings, no letter, no postcards, nothing just nothing.  You shouldn’t feel depressed because every end is a new beginning. When the person who promised to live whole life together just becomes a stranger in few days, you shouldn’t feel sad rather you should wake up and feel the sun touching your face. Feel the new you and move ahead. Forget the past, live in the present.

I know it hurts, just admit the fact that your life is not perfect and the fact is no one’s life is perfect. Facebook timelines are full of happy moments. Don’t get carried away by your past, just be practical as your partner who left you doesn’t care for you anymore. Don’t just cry, wake up, write, work, make new relationships; don’t just keep staring at those photos in your cell phone and send hate messages to your erstwhile partner. He/she is no more in your life, you are again alone in your life, look around and you will see better people, you will see things that you missed while you were in a relationship. Be cool, be happy and don’t listen to sad songs, I know you will do this.

(Burn everything that your ex gave it to you, delete all photographs from your cell, block her in whatsapp, facebook, and erase her phone number from your cell, erase her mom and dad’s number too, block her friends too..)

Heartbreaks are a part of life, you will be dumped, destroyed and killed but the ability to rise again is what makes you a perfect person. You are no inferior to anybody. You have your powers, you have your skills, you are beautiful and most importantly, you are a human being with humane feelings. You felt bad when someone left you or you both got separated due to some unforeseen reason. Separation is no more painful, it’s a part of life.

(Go attend some rock concerts, have a grand dinner, travel, visit auto expo, listen to music, crop your hair, get a new look, start talking, start writing, watch movies, sleep more).

Now, you have a big world in front of you and you have freedom to explore life’s unlimited resources. You become so powerful that even the greatest shocks can’t shatter you. You are prepared to face challenges; you are ready for a new life without any expectations. Your dreams get bigger, you become more attractive and approachable, you no more live inside that clogged life. You feel new, you feel happy once again, you jump from a rotten world to a world of greenery and freshness. You leave the coldness of yesteryears to feel the warmth of present. You walk like a king, you smile like a baby. You are no more alone, you have the whole world waiting for you. You are the survivor, the poison couldn’t destroy you. You have nothing but happiness waiting for you. 

Thursday, August 22, 2013

Few Minutes before Death...

Suddenly your childhood re-visits 
You could see your father giving you cycling lessons,
You fall, you fall again, you finally ride alone
You see your sister joking, your brother playing
You see paper boats
You see your childhood crush
You go to boarding school,
You make friends, you run, you fight
Suddenly your roommates become your lifelong buddies.
You go to college, you make girlfriend
You guys have great time together,
You see your friends, your parents
You see your first paycheck; you see your concert tickets,
You see your blog,
You see her smiling…
Suddenly there’s a flash,
Bright lights, numbness and finally you are gone.
Those few minutes, those few seconds
just becomes a memory, a shadow, 
a story never told. 

Monday, August 05, 2013

Why Writers Fantasize?

Living world is a bowl of untapped fiction; you need some fantasy to create a beautiful canvas. Writers are born dreamers; they live in their own world where the moonlight never abandons their galaxy, where fireflies are seen all over the living room. Writers are fond of art, music and romance. They fall in love, gets betrayed, they dumps the un-imaginative, they keep moving ahead.

When you see a beautiful girl, you stare at her, and if she gives you that half-hearted smirk, you feel your job is almost done. You then move ahead and create a world where you see that girl walking towards you, she don’t look at you but hold your hands and make them touch her face. You slowly lift her moon face, and kiss her in her cheeks; you slowly bring your lips upon her lips and slowly roll your tongue above them.

This is where, the real fun begins, a writer’s imagination runs wild, he takes her to that fairytalish world where she finds everything she once desired, a beautiful house, some friendly servants, a handsome looking fine young man. A writer creates a romantic atmosphere with his fingers. The moon faced girl opens a box, lots fireflies come out of the box and when they disappear, she sees a shining mirror, which tells her how beautiful she is. She then keeps the mirror inside her bag and walk around the glossy garden. A writer’s kingdom is full of flying words, the words transforms into real objects like wine, flowers, love and lust just to satiate the moon faced girl.

Writers stay in trance, they look lost, they talk less. They have a unique lifestyle, they can mesmerise with their sweet charm, they won’t make you feel the dust of real life instead you will feel the fragrance of lilies and see a magical world with their eyes. Writers are not normal human beings, they are creators, they are the ones who will take humanity forward and one day when the whole world will transform into mere digits, writers will use their fantasy to create the magic of written words again.

Books will be re-created, movies will be made, songs will become more humane, music will again conquer, robots will feel, mechanical parts will become emotional; you will fall in love with that writer who will re-create utopia. They will make you fly without wings, they will give you the power to become invisible, they will slowly turn everything into reality. Their fantasies will eventually become an actuality. The world needs writers because if there’s no writers, there will be no story, no history, no life.

This is the second part “Life Of An Urban Writer Series. Next: Why Writers Are So Good At Giving That Perfect O?

Sunday, July 28, 2013

Life of an urban writer – Part 1

Writing is the most difficult thing for a writer because he or she becomes so conscious while scribbling things of their hearts. A writer is someone who looks different, who acts in a very different way, who keep repeating mistakes, who forgets hell lot of things. A writer has a completely different lifestyle, he/she is misunderstood, who keep less friends, who dreams of living in an island to complete his/her last masterpiece, who criticises, who appreciates, who belongs to a absolute different world.

Everyone wants to be powerful in life, some people joins army, some take up medical sciences, some end up becoming engineers, some become business tycoons, some become actors, some end up doing nothing. Writers want to become everything, they dream big, they try to change things around, they have a great taste for music and sometimes their taste becomes extremely obnoxious. Writers are mad people, loners, haters and sometimes great perverts. They may look very ordinary but you can’t escape their charm, they have something inherent. Their genes echo words of future, they are so full aesthetics. Style is the second name of an urban writer. They all have a signature design of work. Some keep it subtle while some write things, which are so very impractical and absurd. Some writer write things to confuse, while some write for satiating their hungry souls, some write for money, some write to change the world.

Writers are crazy bunch of people, they are so mad about things they love. They are romantic villains, they are Casanovas, they love womanising when they don’t work, they are loyal lovers, they are betrayed souls. Nothing is so constant expect one thing – their knack for chronicling their own lives. They are so open hearted that they could give everything to person they love. They get addicted to things quickly. Almost all successful people on earth are writers. They become writers after becoming successful or they become successful after writing successfully. Everyone at the top of the mountain are great scribblers.

Inspiration plays a great deal in a writer’s life. It can come from a woman, it can come from someone whom the writer admires, it can come from scenic locations, it can come from hell lot of money. When inspiration blends with imagination, great things are created from the hands of a writer. Music is the oxygen of a writer. If you hate music, you are no writer and if you don’t observe, you are just pretending to be a writer. A writer is a sensitive person but they gradually learn try to take things as they come their way. Nobody is a perfect writer, even Shakespeare made grammatical errors, even Oscar made typos, writers can be imperfect but the great thing about them is they try to make everything perfect at the end of the day.

To be continued…

Why Writers Fantasize?

Monday, July 22, 2013

Three Things Women Want…

Based on my observation in real life and social networks, I have seen three things very common in all women. I know it’s difficult to understand a woman, they constantly have mood swings, their taste changes, they constantly look for something fresh and desirable. Girls in urban cities are different from girls from semi urban places, while woman from rural places have totally different thought process. India is a developing country and women in this country are developing with the country. Girls in urban places wants everything they want, they are independent and domineering, they look for intelligent, good looking people and of course rich people around. Urban girls see stuff, feel things and want to achieve what other are achieving. They feel jealous when they see other girls with same intellect and looks do well in life. Due to the famous Facebook, the jealously culture is prevailing in India. Everyone is flaunting a diva look clicked by high resolution cameras. You hardly see an ugly girl on the web. The better your camera, the better you look.

Urban girls are devoid of real love, they are so perfect that they hardly find a good match for them and finally end up dating a douchebag, who finally leave her for a better option. Urban girls are beautiful from outside but they have so much pain hidden inside, they are so successful in their jobs but they fail to have a great relationship. They read books, magazines still they find no peace of mind. They never get their prince charming. Only the lucky ones who know the art of balancing their love and job life get their share. Girls in semi-urban cities are lucky, they stay with their family, they have enough time to enjoy unlike girls in metros. They are real lucky ones with fewer aspirations, they want to look like the Bollywood stars, wants their boyfriend to look like someone like Shahrukh Khan. They are filmy. They want a big fat wedding, a big house, a big car and a great family. Getting married is their sole ambition in life and they are actually happier than the ultra urban girls. The urban girls don’t have so much time to mingle and end up doing casual flings. They have a disturbed life. Girls from rural places have no goal, no dressing sense but they are so full of love and affection. They marry early and have kids. Their life is all about family. Every woman is unique, some look beautiful from outside, some look intelligent, some look hot and some look desirable.

Three Things Women Want…

  1. Women want abundance of love, more than man. They want someone to hold their hand in public places, they want somebody to listen when they are depressed, they want someone to walk along in the rain. They want a constant companion and when they don’t get love, they become depressed. They become ruthless; they want a partner who satisfies them from top to bottom. Someone who understand them, someone who treats them like princesses. 
  2. Women want enough money so that they can live a life without stress. They want their partner to earn so much that they don’t have to slog. Money is something, which plays a great role in keeping a relationship stable however it’s not the real thing for sure. 
  3. Love making plays a great role in a woman’s life. A good night or an afternoon full of love can keep a woman fresh for weeks and even months. They want pleasure from their partner and when they are satisfied, they can just do anything for you. There’s nothing like making love in a rainy day, in a open terrace or under the shower. Well, understanding a woman is the hardest thing in the world however few men are lucky to have the desired girl in their life who actually wants nothing. Those girls just want happiness, they can adjust in any circumstances, they will stand by you in your bad days, they will take your pain, and they will just surrender themselves in your arms. Amid the hectic city life, there are people who never find true love; they just keep stumbling against the right and wrong ones…

Thursday, June 20, 2013

Why Bloggers Are Considered Insanely Attractive?

Blogging is one of the trendiest things to do in the era of digital revolution. Bloggers are mad people, insane bunch of geeks, suave and extremely gorgeous people around. Earlier blogging was just a hobby for many however times changed and the people who wrote clich├ęs became millionaires. Some blogs died in oblivion while others succeeded. People started liking their blogs, people started talking about the things the blogger wrote. They became experts and they got perks they never expected.

In America, almost everyone stays online 24*7 while Indians are slowly catching up. I could see people carrying smart phones all around me. What they mostly do? They play games, listen to music and reads digital content. The future is here and we can’t deny the existence of bloggers. They are ones who write things from their hearts. If they go through a bad experience, they write. If they see a beautiful girl while travelling, they write. When they feel bored, they write. When they feel pain, they write.

They have an audience, friends to support and acknowledge them and suddenly their blogs get so popular that they are just acquired by the mainstream media. There’s hell lot of money hidden inside your words. You just have to write genuine things instead of following the trend. There are no golden rules to success.

You can’t make money overnight. If you blog to earn money, you are most probably at the wrong place. Blogging gives you freedom to flaunt your experiences with the world. It gives you power to declare your feelings after watching a movie and if your words are real, you become a Maven, an extremely attractive person. People will follow your hairstyle, people will wear what you wear, people will slowly talk about you. You will make enemies; you will make friends for life. Blogging can be an addiction too.

Now the question is – Why bloggers are considered insanely attractive in the digital age? Well, you simply can’t live without Internet. You need information, you need poetry, you need fiction, you need motivating people around, you need things that can change your life. You can’t survive without the written words.

If you are thinking about something very beautiful to happen in your life, just blog about it, if you need your poetry to be read by the most intelligent crowd around, just put it in your blog, if you are a Tarrot card reader, just help people online. Blogging is everything, if you are a blogger, you somehow acquire all the capabilities of an online marketer. You learn so many things during the process. You actually become invincible.

Blogging is freedom, blogging is the best outlet to vent out your pent up emotions, it’s one of the best thing to do if you have very little or too much happening in your life. Just don’t let those important moments in your life go away. Capture them in the form of words  and read them after 10 years. I bet you can’t stop smiling at those kiddish stuffs.

Bloggers are insanely attractive because they actually feel things, they live a perfect life, they are mad, they crib, they cry still they survive no matter how life treats them. They are the children of Darwin, they are the future of our generation.