Rejection Phobia - A Typical Male Syndrome

Blind dates, long distance affairs, telephonic relations, pen friends, childhood crushes and a typical male behind them all! Everyone is unique, every man is different. Yet, the fear of rejection always lurks like an inevitable shadow around an urban man. So, let’s find out more about this typical male syndrome.

Ex Girlfriends, Ghosts and That Secret Potion of Desire

Sweet melodies of yesteryears often soothe his soul. Confused past, hazy memoirs and long drives in his father’s old gypsy illuminates his apartment. The shadows of his ex girlfriends keep haunting him. Those larger than life greeting cards, those soft toys, those bracelets, those watches, those letters are locked inside his closet. Time changes, feelings evolve, old friends reunites. The air never remains the same.

How to Tweet Like Jim Morrison

Microblogging! The new addition to the content hungry universe is making everyone bit crazy. Some people are investing hefty sum of money to gain followers, some folks tweeting extra sensible quotes, some individuals trying to be little humorous, the celebrities gaining millions of followers overnight and some people are still dazed. They retweet, copy paste some old quotations, sometimes news and views and most of the times they just keep gazing at the time line without having any words to write.

Bedroom Story - What Indian Women Want In Bed?

Indian women are flawless, intelligent and wild in bed. They know the art of taming a wild stallion, they knows the magic of weaving a satisfying tale. Everyone is unique and every girl has their priorities.

Winter Loneliness - Why Loneliness is Ecstatic?

The music of David Gilmour (On an Island) is creating a dreamlike ambience; the loner is busy writing his chronicle in his studio apartment, he is capturing the ecstasy of being lonely in an overcrowded city. He is mutely inhaling the drifting joy and the lingering silence, he is growing from within, he is catching the stars, and he is alive…

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Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Writer’s Block – Tips To Get Rid Of Writer’s Block!

I constantly experience this problem. I struggle to get ideas for my write ups but I never give up. Writer’s block is a temporary phase that can be easily undertaken. Sometime you take an hour to write a line. You curse yourself and scratch your head out of sheer frustration. You start gazing at the walls for getting ideas but in vain. You smoke and burn your lungs but still those ideas don’t come to you. You are left with a blank verse…..


Tips To Get Rid Of Writer’s Block!

A writer’s block can be easily diminished by collecting motivations. You may not get them instantly but a writer’s life is empty without them. If your works aren’t appreciated than try to collect criticisms. At least you’ll feel engaged.

Another great technique for eliminating this problem is sleeping. Take a nap! You will surely feel rejuvenated and energized.

Talk to your loved ones and share pics with them. Socialize and invite friends to read your articles. A writer is more like a salesman sometimes.

You should listen to great music for renewing your flair. Don’t over stress yourself because over burdening may lead to destruction. Give room to your emotions to blossom.

Start composing short poems for satiating your soul. Meet your loved ones and spend time with them. Oh great! I have successfully cleared by blockage by writing this. What about you?

All great ideas come from an empty stomach. It’s time for my dinner….

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Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Youtube Age – Tips To Walk Ahead Of Youtube Age!


Are you ready to walk ahead of this Youtube age? Then you are obviously at the right place at the right time. Currently I am listening to Pink Floyd’s Comfortably Numb… What are you doing?


Just like any other day I saw a wonderful video on Youtube, which teaches you how to write a sales copy. No-doubt it was good but I think technology is somehow suppressing the real writing. What do you think? I think everything is moving at a rocket speed and it’s becoming difficult to catch the momentum.

A geek has all powers now! He is doing push button publishing. He is earning money online. He is driving a Merc and obviously he is enjoying all the attention. We are just following them in facebook, twitter etc. Etc. But why can’t we pound them? The answer is here…keep reading.



Tips To Walk Ahead Of Youtube Age!



The momentum is rising. The heat is all around. The world is undergoing a change. It’s moving towards an anonymous province. However, you can easily combat this by becoming a leader. Still wondering…


The space age is here. Now everything is available online. People are even buying a pen here.


Staying updated is becoming a necessity now. If you are away for a second then you will find everything gone –vaporized! You can’t miss it because you have to walk ahead of this sky rocketing space age. It’s time to flaunt an emotional hairstyle now.


Are you still waiting for my tips? Then you are the one who can easily walk beyond time. You have a constant urge to decipher the hidden dungeons of life. If you are ambitious then please flaunt your creativity without any hesitation because there are so many platforms nowadays. You can be easily hunted and glorified…


If you want to walk ahead of this age then please start dreaming because all great ideas come from hazy but informative dreams...

Keep reading…. for experiencing little bit of surrealism!





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Monday, September 28, 2009

Monotonous Life – Do Monotony Stimulates Creativity Or Destroys It?


I was always under an impression that loneliness and monotony stimulates creativity. However, I was quite wrong. It diminishes your internal fire. You need constant incentives for nurturing your creativity. After writing so many stupid articles, finally I am on the verge of an end. My vocabulary sounds monotonous, my prepositions going wrong and my life going nowhere.


Do Monotony Stimulates Creativity or Destroys It?

It’s like a silent killer. It not only devastates your imagination but also annihilates your emotions. It makes you like a stone – unperturbed, silent! The joy of living no more excites you. It curses you every now and then. Monotony makes you a devil without a smirk. The void seems to increase every day.


Huh! No more dark scribbles and violins now. The smoke will fade away very soon. Who says, creativity can’t be re-generated. It can be raised with lavishness. It’s time to break to rupture the repetitiveness.
It’s time to eat more ice creams and feel the rains again. It’s time to enjoy the small pleasures of life. You can’t always ponder upon yesterday’s mistakes. We should constantly search for a new beginning….We can easily combat monotony by creating new interests.

Love will again shower upon our lives. Everyone you hated or loved will comeback to your life. You’ll be blessed with good friends….One should preferably kick dullness and embrace life with zest. Creativity is a nice blend of happiness and monotony though.

Learn cooking and start treating yourself. I will be doing lots of things this year to shed the dullness from my life. So, smile now…..no more tragic stories and lonely songs. Oh I forgot! It’s time for my lunch….

Another stupid article ends here….

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Sunday, September 27, 2009

Urban Loneliness – Facts About Urban Boredom Unveiled!

From New York to New Delhi, Urban Loneliness is a regular phenomenon. It’s becoming a new lifestyle. Most of the flats in an urban setting are occupied by only one member or maybe two (including his/her pet). You sometimes feel bad and really miss a family when you have to eat your dinner always alone. Fast paced life, over demanding job and a desire to make it big some day are the biggest factors for this type of lifestyle. However, it can be a fashionable existence if you know the tricks.



Facts About Urban Boredom Unveiled!


It’s not an unhappy way of living rather it’s the most responsible part of your life. You can flaunt your freedom with flamboyance by creating your own world.

There are no restrictions, no boundaries. However, you feel much disappointed in your weekends when you have no one to visit your apartment. You shop, eat and laugh alone. You have no one to pamper.

Sometimes you feel like talking to your walls but unfortunately they don’t have ears! The world is pacing towards a robotic horizon. It’s killing all the emotions. It is transforming everyone into a gadget. There is no time to eat, pray and love.

Twitter, facebook and blogspot are the only companions . Urban loner socializes virtually and smiles artificially. He listens to music to escape. He visits a coffee shop alone. Phew! Loneliness can be a big baggage of boredom.

Not every everyone living in a cosmopolitan city goes through this. They are the lucky ones unlike me………

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Saturday, September 26, 2009

How To Escape From Reality? Tips To Find Happiness By Escaping Reality




Escaping reality can be the best answer to all your pain. It can easily transport you to a different world. How to escape from reality? You should feel the joy from your chosen world by leaving the baggage of truth behind. It’s again a Saturday evening; my friends are most probably enjoying the live cricket match between India and Pakistan but a silent blogger (that’s me) is scribbling down his thoughts from a noiseless corner of his planet. He is actually trying to find contentment in all his pain.


Tips To Find Happiness By Escaping From Reality

Dreaming: It is considered to be the best way to escape truth. You can easily transform yourself into a superman and meet your girlfriend who lives miles away from you. You can visit Venice, Madrid or Paris without paying the plane tickets. You can even attend a Linkin Park concert. Phew! Actually you can do everything.

Music: It is the best healer of all times. You can easily escape by listening to your favorite song. It can be anything from soft rock to blues. All genres are equally musical and expressive.

Blog: Finally, if you are a geek or a writer like me, then you can blog! It’s one of the best ways to escape. Even John Keats would have appreciated this for sure.







Friday, September 25, 2009

Silence – The Only Thing Found After A Tempest!
















Life is getting intricate with each passing day.

It’s creating nuisance

Things are falling apart and I am trying to gather those broken pieces.

The amount of hate is mounting while love is dying

I am converted into a listener from a big tattler

I am completely numb today

Silence is taking over me…….



Thursday, September 24, 2009

I Am Not A Sinner But I Am Not God Too!
















Sometimes you feel like a dog when things go haywire. Relationships start breaking down into pieces. Suddenly you are into a dungeon surrounded by blood drinkers. It’s the only time when you realize your mistakes. You try to resolve them but in vain.

Time and relations are never constant. They keep on moving. Sometimes they give happiness and the very next moment they can turn out to be all pain. You are swamped with blames and hammered with words. You can’t survive the tantrums of your loved ones so easily. Silence is the only answer to those unanswered questions.

If you have created a grave mistake, then apologize. I know it can’t fix your blunders but it can easily heal your pain. You can easily preserve your happiness by confessing everything to God. Learning from mistakes is the next best thing after apologies.

This article is dedicated to all my friends and my loved ones who feel cheated by their partners. It’s also for someone like me who constantly keeps committing mistakes. I have said my words. I hope every broken relationship will reunite after reading this. It’s not the moral of my article rather it’s a confession from my side to all my loved ones who believes that I am a liar or a cheater! Relationships from heart are meant to stay forever. It shouldn’t fade away overnight!


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Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Blogger Since 2006










It’s 2009 and I am still blogging! I started this blog when I was pursuing my MBA. Those days were some of the not-so-good days of my life as I really hated some subjects like Quantitative Analysis, Economics etc. I was usually a backbencher.

Blogging gave me satisfaction. It was like my online diary. I am not a daily blogger but I like to go through my page at least 10 times a day. It’s my home and my soul resides here. I love to read other blogs as well.

I am constantly in search of good-looking templates and widgets for my blog. It’s like a soothing experience. I love to decorate my blog with vibrant colors. Sometimes I write and sometimes I just keep on gazing. I just love to hang out here.

There are many things in life, which you would love to do such as traveling the whole world, deep sea fishing, flying and of course savoring some of the best cuisines. Every time I come to my blog, I find a self gratifying feeling.

Blogging is evolving and with each passing day. It’s introducing new features. There are so many interesting stuffs to read here. Like many bloggers, I also love to flaunt my feelings with the whole world. It gives me immense pleasure. Sometimes I feel like an orator and the whole world my audience. It inspires me to move. It’s like water and food for me.

Whenever I feel all alone, I come here; I read and then slowly move away with a smile. It’s a magical pot of happiness for me. I love my blog because it provides me fulfillment. It rejuvenates my mind, body and soul. Nonetheless, it’s a never ending voyage for me. ....

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Saturday, September 19, 2009

What Is The Best Thing In Life?


Only a very sad person knows the true meaning of bliss. The best thing in life is sheer happiness. I am a firm believer of joy. Mostly due to work pressure, fast paced life and long distance relationships, we experience a sense of boredom. We crave to get a glimpse of our loved ones. We suffer from a symptom called “Urban Loneliness”. Although, we always keep a smile in our face, but our inner self craves for a comforting shoulder.



The best thing in life is always concealed in our pain and solitude. My childhood memories constantly remind me of joy. I could see those faces of my parents, siblings, relatives and friends. Sometimes I feel like returning back home and start a new life. But now, I think every thing is written. It’s destined and hence I am writing this piece today without thinking anything. I haven’t decided yet but my fingers deny stopping.



It’s usually difficult to make others happy. We keep forgetting things and we end up breaking relationships. We torture ourselves by becoming an outsider. We lock our doors and shut our emotions. Sometimes we need companions and sometimes we don’t. The journey of life offers different phases. You go through the greatest times as well as a period of complete silence. Nothing is everlasting, it keeps changing but the best thing in life always remains the same - happiness!


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Tuesday, September 15, 2009

How To Kill A Zombie?




  I can see people walking
I can see them occupying every district
Entering big cities and small towns
The crowd is increasing
Every corner is captured
Even I am not spared…

Welcome to the world of Zombies

 

We are pacing towards development ….Are we guys turning into zombies with each passing day and joining the herd of a lifeless soul…What if we are unable to hear our heartbeats as we get swayed away by the mechanical and robotic world. What if humanities vanish out of a sudden and we lose those pieces of literary bliss?

What if the growing world converts us into zombies?

 

A zombie is an animated human body devoid of a soul. In modern-day versions these are usually reanimated or undead corpses, which were conventionally called "ghouls."
In philosophy of mind, zombies are theoretical persons who lack full consciousness but behave otherwise just like other people. They are referred to as philosophical zombies or "p-zombies".
During my graduation days, I was too much into absurd literature and hence I got fascinated towards Rhinoceros (French original title Rhinoceros) is a play by Eugène Ionesco, written in 1959. The play belongs to the school of drama known as the theatre of the absurd. Over the course of three acts, the residents of a small, provincial French town turn into rhinoceroses; the central character, Bérenger, a frustrated everyman figure who is often criticized throughout the play for his drinking habits and sluggishness, is ultimately the only human who does not surrender to this mass metamorphosis. Well, may be I am replacing rhinoceros by zombies here.
I am only predicting things and I don’t think things will ever remain same as before as we are moving away from the classical era to an ultra modern era….where a laptop has replaced a typewriter, an I-pod has replaced a gramophone so why not zombies replace those rhinoceros of Ionesco. Things are changing now and so are the soul of a human being is on the road for metamorphosis!
How to Kill a Zombie?
The zombies are hard-to-kill unless you know how. Their bodies are fragile and can be easily damaged... They feel no pain and do not care to protect themselves or defend themselves. Their only motivation is to attack the living. To kill zombies, you have to:
Destroy their brain. If you destroy the nerve centers of the brain, particularly the modules that control motor functions or the brain stem, you disable the zombie. Cutting its head off means that it can't control its body, and the body becomes a normal dead body.
Burn them. A burning zombie will normally become distressed, more confused than normal, and will sometimes attempt to pat it out (though it can never succeed). After a while, the zombie will fall down. Fire will repeatedly scare zombies and keep them at bay.
Demolish them by crippling and destroying their whole body. Blazing pyres are the best place to dispose of the body.
Guys what do you think we should do to spread global peace and prevent zombies from intruding human mind?
Dee says “You spoke of the increase of materialism, dishonesty and greed will convert everyone into a zombie and I won't disagree. I guess most get stuck in the material world also labeled as the "RAT RACE" of the world. They try to get the better paying jobs, make more and end up only competing to show their worth by what they can buy. Materialism and dishonesty are two traits that are not biased of any race, creed, color or religion. It lives and like a disease gets spread across every inch of our world. I guess the human that exists without enjoyment and appreciation of life could be classified as a zombie. I never really thought of a zombie in that respect before. I just thought of them more as narrow-minded people with a goal of Power, fame and fortune that leaves them with a void in their life because they never seem to get enough. Climbing up ladders as they step on everyone to get to where they think they should be.
World peace would be awesome but I don't think it will ever be seen. As long as there is: Someone that feels cheated. Someone fights to obtain power. The thought is one of the noblest one ever thought. But achieving it takes more then words and actions.... it takes a world of people "WITH SOULS”.
As I have mentioned above Zombies are on their mission to eliminate and convert us like them. So guys let us not come under their trap. Let’s try to feel the beauty around us. Why not dance in the rain and try to smell the fragrance of a blossoming flower, eat more ice creams, dream more and distribute love as much as we can. Let’s not kill animals, preserve trees and go green…why can’t we take a small walk in the evening instead of burning oil of our cars? Why cant we stop fighting with each other for power and embrace each other and have more power…If we can add smile to someone’s life and give time to our loved ones then Zombies can’t attack us rather they will convert into human beings like us. …..
I wish someone could hear me
I wish someone could feel me
I wish someone could value my words
I wish materialism vanished from this earth
I wish for an ideal world!!!