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What Woman Wants? An Inside Story




I am no dating coach, I am no womanizer - I am just an avid fantasist. I am no poet, I am no philosopher – I am just a dreamer. Talking about the most beautiful creation of God gives me pleasure. Woman’s life juggles between predictability and unpredictability.

What woman wants? The answer may differ from one woman to other but every girl loves to be loved. It’s a general human tendency to get appreciation and girls just love to get appreciated for every little thing they do. They love raindrops, they love the beautiful sunshine, they love art and they love poetry. Literature in any form fascinates their mind. They love to fantasize, they love to fly, and they love to decipher life at large. A woman’s heart is full of love but when they are broken- they become numb. Rejections give them fright while appreciation delights them from within. They epitomises beauty in every form.

Understanding a woman’s heart is difficult. Mood swings are just a part of their life. They feel happy now but may not feel in the same way tomorrow. The hormones keep changing with time. They are miraculous and divine. Their presence lights up homes, their presence brightens a party and their existence makes life so very beautiful.

Sometimes woman seek no excellence in a guy for loving him. They just get along with someone who feels good enough for them. The rules keep changing. Confidence and sense of humour plays a major role for attracting a woman. They can study a guy within 15 seconds. They are avid observers. They have the ability to scan from top to bottom from distance. They are so very sensitive. I feel bliss when I write about woman because they not only exude beauty but the unsolved mysteries associated with them stimulates my mind. The world around them looks so fine.

The maple leaves are flying in the air and blossoming white lilies are providing me a divine feeling. The world around me is same but my heart is evolving. Woman’s heart is soft but their mind is sharp. They are professionals, pilots, astronauts, writers, engineers and doctors. Women need attention, they need love, and they need to feel happiness all around. They become restless when their work is undone. They love conversations after making love. Everyday is a new day in a woman’s life.

I am no dating coach, I am no womanizer - I am just an avid fantasist. I am no poet, I am no philosopher – I am just a dreamer. These are only my opinions. Feel free to drop your lines…



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31 comments:

  1. I'm surprised! After years of intense research, I still am to figure out what a woman really needs ;)

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  2. Well, the irony is when a man understands a woman funny, he loses her.

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  3. whooaa..!! what an insight...
    its really a wonder that wen a man does finally understand his woman he actually finds her uninteresting anymore..
    i guess thats half the reason women prefer to be mysterious...
    and if, going by your research.. inspite of knowing so many things about women i wonder why men have never been able to woo them the way want to be.. love them the way they want to be.. and make them feel spl the way they want to be..
    if she loves raindrops how many men wud be ready to get wet with her and play with her in the rains.. if she loves poetry.. how many wud actually wanna compose one for her..
    if she loves flowers.. how many wud actually gift her them...
    very very very few dear.. and hence.. women are wat they are always craving for more.. and end up being labelled un-saitisfiable :D
    geee....sorrry abt the long comment.. jus let in my thots :D

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  4. Anonymous9:55 AM

    great observation

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  5. This definitely comes after a lot of experience, coz it so close!!

    Especially "They love conversations after making love" :P

    Keep up!!

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  6. This post is dedicated to all women or someone in particular? :P
    You have tried understanding women and have succeeded somewhat, but all women don't like appreciation all the time. Some prefers challenges than love and stuffs.
    Anyway, wonderful post. :)

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  7. a woman changes with time like no man can...I think her true self comes out after the hormones stop creating havoc.

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  8. Anonymous1:25 AM

    liked the passage immensely....great observation.

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  9. @Rakesh...The intense love-filled heart of a woman is extremely difficult to decipher.

    @Ana…Your response is full of wit and grit. When a man understands a woman - he loses her!

    @Meg…I love long comments. I love words. I hope more characters would fly in my garden tonight.

    @Anonymous…Thanks for your observation.

    @Richa…I am still an amateur. The process of learning can be so beautiful.

    @Nethra....Thanks for liking my post. This post is dedicated to everyone who loves and respects women at large.

    @Nalini....Extremely profound interpretation. Quite true.

    @Anonymous…Thanks for the read.

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  10. isnt it difficult... to find what women wants... :D and I just love the confused looks on guys :P
    loved the post... a step into the women mind I must say :)

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  11. @Rajlakshmi...Trying to peek into a woman's heart. Trying, falling, trying again and again :)

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  12. Hi there! nice post!
    though "They can study a guy within 15 seconds. They are avid observers. They have the ability to scan from top to bottom from distance" is giving them too much power, don't you think? ;-)

    but, nice post overall as "what women want?" is indeed a mystery
    :-)

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  13. Thanks Pravin :)

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  14. you may not be a womanizer.....but the things you write.....implement it ...you'll become one.... :)

    don't know if all things you said was right or wrong....yea...these things change from girl to girl......you call it.....being appreciated....i call it ego massage.....the difference is of being good and bad respectively.....aahh sometimes i just blabber around knowing nothing wat i want to say.....

    anyways......good one.....you must be getting a lot of girls.....drooling over you.....after they read this....

    \,,/

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  15. @hitesh: The creative and the cynical view points if you ask me. Yours and Pallavs viewpoints.

    @Rajlakshmi: The confused look is called the puppy face. Ever show a puppy something new? :)

    Anywhoo, nice post. Yes, women definitely love attention but, you do not have to try very hard. You will be surprised how honest most of them actually are when you give them the puppy face :)

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  16. @Hitesh...Thanks brother for your generous comment :)

    @Hemanth...I like your puppy comment;)

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  17. wow how very insightful.. congratulations on coming so close..

    so how about a post on "what men want" to seal the deal ;)?

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  18. Thanks Pooja for appreciating the closeness :)

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  19. wow I love this piece of writing. I voted for the ither one on indivine too. You are one blogger I would want to add to my blogroll. Great blog, very catching work and a lot to enjoy as a writer. Best wishes .

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  20. wow I love this piece of writing. I voted for the ither one on indivine too. You are one blogger I would want to add to my blogroll. Great blog, very catching work and a lot to enjoy as a writer. Best wishes .

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  21. Thanks Tikuli for your generosity. I am feeling motivated and inspired now :)

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  22. Excellent post man... keep writing such great stuff.. :)

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  23. Thanks Satwinder:)

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  24. An ever-elusive mystery I would quite frankly never like to find out... I appreciate it through the unpredictabilities.

    But quite predictably, any guy who writes this is bound to be laid soon. In that regard, i quite envy you!

    Just kidding... good work!

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  25. Thanks Bhaskaryya :)

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  26. "The world around me is same but my heart is evolving"
    First time here,loved the post:)
    There are many women in today's world who are not the prototypes;)

    Cheers
    Dr.Raksha

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  27. WALLA............You seem to have done your research well....after going through your post I would like to rate it as the best ever postd by a man..........Impressive!!!

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  28. Thanks Banashri :)

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  29. It's difficult to understand any particular human being completely, whether man or woman. Even, we ourselves are not aware of the different shades of our characters.. :-)
    However, nice post... :-)

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  30. this post reminded me of reading a book, "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus". I don't want to reflect on that book here..

    I enjoy reading this post. wonderful thoughts... beautiful observations..

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