Rejection Phobia - A Typical Male Syndrome

Blind dates, long distance affairs, telephonic relations, pen friends, childhood crushes and a typical male behind them all! Everyone is unique, every man is different. Yet, the fear of rejection always lurks like an inevitable shadow around an urban man. So, let’s find out more about this typical male syndrome.

Ex Girlfriends, Ghosts and That Secret Potion of Desire

Sweet melodies of yesteryears often soothe his soul. Confused past, hazy memoirs and long drives in his father’s old gypsy illuminates his apartment. The shadows of his ex girlfriends keep haunting him. Those larger than life greeting cards, those soft toys, those bracelets, those watches, those letters are locked inside his closet. Time changes, feelings evolve, old friends reunites. The air never remains the same.

How to Tweet Like Jim Morrison

Microblogging! The new addition to the content hungry universe is making everyone bit crazy. Some people are investing hefty sum of money to gain followers, some folks tweeting extra sensible quotes, some individuals trying to be little humorous, the celebrities gaining millions of followers overnight and some people are still dazed. They retweet, copy paste some old quotations, sometimes news and views and most of the times they just keep gazing at the time line without having any words to write.

Bedroom Story - What Indian Women Want In Bed?

Indian women are flawless, intelligent and wild in bed. They know the art of taming a wild stallion, they knows the magic of weaving a satisfying tale. Everyone is unique and every girl has their priorities.

Winter Loneliness - Why Loneliness is Ecstatic?

The music of David Gilmour (On an Island) is creating a dreamlike ambience; the loner is busy writing his chronicle in his studio apartment, he is capturing the ecstasy of being lonely in an overcrowded city. He is mutely inhaling the drifting joy and the lingering silence, he is growing from within, he is catching the stars, and he is alive…

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Sunday, January 31, 2010

It’s A Butt Crazy World – Myths and Facts about Butts Revealed!




Nice butt! Oh, that’s what everybody is looking for nowadays. The beauty of woman lies in her bottom says many intelligent men. From Kim Kardashian to Salma Hayek, from Jennifer Lopez to Hally Berry, everybody possesses mouth-watering bottoms. Fascination for well-toned, voluptuous, killing shape is gaining momentum with each passing day. Girls love to have them and boys like to see them. They can be extremely motivating. Indian women are genetically gifted with these physical attributes. Their body exude bliss. It’s undoubtedly a butt crazy world my dear my friend. You may like it or hate it but it’s extremely impossible to ignore a curvaceous bottom. Your eyeballs get automatically drifted towards them. It’s half voluntary and half involuntary. The way they moves, the way they jumps, the way they take shape is extremely enthralling. Almost everybody (men) gets attracted towards a woman having extremely well toned bottom. It’s kind of fatal attraction. People think that only perverts thinks all these things day and night but the fact is every guy admires and craves for this. Some guys say, others not.


Myths and Facts about Butts Revealed!

There are different shapes and sizes. Some look cute while others look irresistible. Even woman loves to gaze at man’s butt. That’s a reality. According to various surveys, almost 90% woman loves to date a guy with a well toned bottom. Gone are the days of biceps and chest. It’s time to have some delicious butts.

Sexy and intelligent butts are mostly found in big cities. Almost every girl possesses a delightfully curved back. They consciously wear the tightest possible pair of jeans to flaunt them with flamboyance. They love to swing them. I have also seen girls slapping their bottoms just to check the form. Oh! That’s perfect, you needn’t worry about it. Girls are focusing more on butt exercises. They are reading all types of magazines to attain a bikini shaped body. They are taking tips from trainers and doctors. They are literally running for a well toned butt. These are only my opinion. What’s your story?

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Friday, January 29, 2010

Nothing Actually


Words, emotions, thoughts and pain
The four walls of my living room
Makes me laugh, makes me grin
Makes me an evil,
The killing silence, empty feelings
And a broken heart…

Sometimes everything seems so unreal
Oh! Life can be so uninteresting
It can be so vacant without that meaningful happiness.
Words, emotions, thoughts and pain
The four walls of my living room.


Those sweet memories, those fulfilling smiles
Are no more left…
The sky is all grey;
There is a pain; there is sadness all around.
It’s not a poem, it’s not a prose
Actually it’s nothing…

Whenever I feel depressed I scribble, whenever I am happy I scribble, whenever I do nothing I scribble. Writing is something which keeps me alive. It makes me laugh, cry and smile. The joy of jotting down my feelings can be so relaxing. Sometimes, you have nothing to deliver, nothing to say actually. The moment you feel suffocated, monotonous and pressurised- you feel the need for writing. There is art, creativity and lots of emotions attached with this unique addiction called writing. Even a prisoner of war feels like a bird by scribbling few sentences in his notebook.

Sometimes you write because you feel love, sometimes you write because you feel ditched. You scribble to express your unsaid emotions, you write to fly without wings. The process will continue till the time humanity survives. Writing is like sipping an old wine. It’s like sitting and chatting with a beautiful woman. So, keep writing my dear friend because at the end of the day it makes you feel happy and completely satisfied. Oh! I am feeling better now…





Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Miss Touch Me Not – Shocking Secrets about Miss Touch Me Not Revealed


You must have gone through this phrase once in your lifetime. Yeah! She is Miss Touch Me Not. It seems great because we are all same. Girls are unique, flamboyant and lovely. They can mesmerise and titillate your souls from distance. They are charming and extremely thoughtful people on earth. Some girls are friendly while others take time to feel comfortable. Some women are bold while others are beautiful. Some girls are poetic while others love practical things. I can understand that every girl wants to preserve their virginity till marriage but that doesn’t mean you will act like a super sensitive person when a boy touches you. Men aren’t animals after all. They have emotions too.

Shocking Secrets about Miss Touch Me Not Revealed

Miss Touch Me Not loves to cover her body from top to bottom. She never wears skinny jeans and body hugging tea shirts; she loves to be in her limits. That’s fantastic. I like them but why they are like that? I don’t analyse things so much, I just write whatever I see, hear and feel.

Guys feel scared to come near them because they can be poisonous. They can bite you without touching you of course. They can sue you, slap you, and curse you.  These girls try to behave like goddesses which they aren’t basically. There are exceptions but every Miss Touch Me Not may not be a virgin. Even globalization can’t change these women because they are born with it. They are so very proud of their virginity.
But I have seen girls who love to mingle around with boys but they never let them come to their bed so easily. They are practical and new age girls.

Well! Miss Touch Me Nots are mostly found in colleges, schools etc. etc. They hardly talks to a guy in public because that makes them bad. They love clandestine meetings, they are so very filmy. It’s a reality. I just want to know why they act like this when they know all guys are not the same. There are innocent boys too. The story of Miss Touch Me Not may not excite you so much but that’s reality. Girls do act like them sometimes.

Correct me if I am wrong?

I only discuss serious things. So keep reading :)

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Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Ugly Faces - A Story about Ugly People and Their Struggles


The story starts from here. No metaphors, no puns but some ugly truth about ugly faces is what I am going to tell here. The world is running after beauty in every form. Nobody cares about an ugly man or an ugly woman. The world becomes nothing but a dark tunnel for them. They struggle, fall; lose every race be it be love, lust or a job. They are treated badly because they look unattractive. They get the worst treatment everywhere they go. They are clueless and misguided everywhere. Their silent tears are never seen. The darkness never fades away from their not-so-beautiful lives.

A Story about Ugly People and Their Struggles

Underground emotions, dark memories and some frozen thoughts make them sad. Ugly people have to struggle in each step. They are less pampered, less cared and less recognised because they have obnoxious features. No girlfriends, no boyfriends, no job, no families, no friends. They are lonely sufferer in the game of life.

No one tries to understand their beautiful souls. No one helps them because they are not so good-looking. They aren’t promoted easily, they aren’t appreciated…finally they die without a whisper. But what is so ugly about ugly faces is something which I ponder. Everyone cannot be good-looking; everybody can’t be suave or dashing. Why life treats badly with people with ugly faces then? Why they have to bite the dust in the road of life? Why their hearts are always empty? The tales about ugly people and their struggles can be disgusting.

We have seen people allotted jobs according to their physical appearances. The way you look is extremely important now for any thing. Why people are going crazy for becoming handsome? Why surgeries are getting momentum. Everybody can’t be attractive like Brad Pitt or Julia Roberts, and everybody can’t be ugly too. It’s not so difficult to shed our differences and embrace people as they are. The moment we do this- humanity wins!

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Monday, January 25, 2010

5 Things Women Hate – A Peek into Woman’s Heart!



Once upon a time the story was different. It was extremely a difficult task to peep through a woman’s heart. “5 things women hate” is all about truth – the real one. The more we try to understand them, the more mysterious they become. There are several things (actions) that attract and distract a woman. Negative remarks, exaggeration and extra intelligence bore them while they love decency; softness and free thinkers…So, let’s get started.

A Peek into Woman’s Heart!
  1. Woman hates Pink Color. Surprised! Yes, they hate to see a boy or a man wearing a baby pink colored dress. They hate show offs and over-smartness. Although they love to hang around with trendy boys but they never let them to come to their bed. They know that these guys aren’t matured and just flirting with you. They just love their company. That’s it. If you’re wearing canvas shoes and earrings than better change your dressing style because girls just love you as a friend nothing more that.
  2. They prefer man with a professional appearance. They like simplicity and innocence which is of course missing in us. In order to come to a woman’s bed, you’ve to understand her heart and that’s what I am going to tell you here.
  3. Girls hate interference. They love to fly without wings. You may lose if you dare to enter into her life without knocking softly. They never disclose everything to a stranger. Well, girls hate boys who sleep after sex. They like conversations after making love. They think that the boy is neglecting her if he doesn’t speak to her after the action while, most boys love to sleep after that. Boys will be boys after all.
  4. Girls hate boys who flirt around. They can’t stand equal importance thing. They always crave for that big attention. You can’t have a girlfriend and good friend who is a girl simultaneously. You have to lose one of them for sure. That’s sad but that’s the only fact. Jealousy is there in the air. We just can’t do anything….
  5. You should preferably avoid convincing a girl for sex if she is showing no interest. Mood swings can be dangerous. Waiting is the key. Till then you can employ other options.

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Saturday, January 23, 2010

What Woman Wants – Secrets About Women Revealed!



Every morning is different in a woman’s life. She is a different person everyday. Sometimes she feels like a queen and the very next day she feels cheated and dumped. What woman wants? Mood swings, hysteria and unpredictability are something they are born with. No one can understand what’s deep down there. They are mysterious and they love to be like that. But there are exceptions always. So, let’s decipher the unseen, unheard world of womanhood.

Secrets About Women Revealed!

Believe it or not, every woman loves appreciation. They love to be flattered every second. They feel neglected when someone don’t acknowledge their feelings. They become unhappy with small things in life. Yet, they have good understanding skill and hence they can make the right decision unlike men.

Women love shopping. It may sound cliche but that’s reality. They have a constant urge for looking beautiful every passing day. They are lovers of beauty, art, literature, poetry, music and flowers. Woman needs company who is nice to her. She loves to be pampered. They like long conversations over the phone and hates T.V when they are with their partners.

Every woman is unique because they are. Please don’t ask me why. Unlike men, they can scan you in few seconds from top to bottom from distance. They are good at making assumptions. They love gossiping a lot. They are the soul of a party, family get together or a road trip. Life without them looks mundane. Yet, they can make your life frustrating if you ever unconsciously or consciously cheat them. They hate cheating because they hate to lose. Woman loves to date someone who is good-looking and humorous. But they always look for maturity in a man. Oh! They are extremely incomprehensible.

What Woman Wants? They basically want brain, brawn and some emotions bundled up together. Please correct me if I am wrong…



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Friday, January 22, 2010

Mental Infidelity – Shocking Secrets About Infidelity And Betrayal Unveiled!



Today I had a great evening. I had a talk with someone who is better than me in every aspect. Sometimes it feels great to learn even something unusual like infidelity from someone who knows nothing about you. You feel enriched, knowledgeable and happy. But how many people really find true happiness in life? Infidelity mayn’t be only physical, it can be mental too. Mental infidelity is far more painful and frustrating. It can make your world fall apart. The world isn’t only a beautiful place. There are ugly corners too. There are unseen traumas and hidden stitches all around.

Shocking Secrets About Infidelity And Betrayal Unveiled!

People think that only sleeping with someone else is faithlessness. Actually it’s only a part of betrayal. The real meaning of disloyalty is something different. You mayn’t even be wrong if you aren’t doing something called “Mental Infidelity”. Men are known to be promiscuous but they can be honest too. There are men who are sleeping with many partners but still they are loyal to their wives or girlfriends because they are not performing mental infidelity.

So, let’s not beat around the bush and come to the main point. Mental infidelity is something which you may be doing unconsciously but it’s one of the main reasons behind every broken relationship. You may be making love with your partner but if you are thinking about someone else during and after that moment of sheer bliss than you are definitely performing mental infidelity. The silent betrayal is far more dangerous than other things in life. An early discovery can be repaired but if it’s a long term thing than you are most probably going to suffer the pain. You are definitely going to cry and curse yourself. The truth is bitter but if it’s unseen than it is more pungent.

Many families, many lives are going through this pain. They are silent because they want to preserve the honour. They aren’t disclosing the deepest secrets about their broken affairs with their husbands or wives to the world because they are afraid of the society. They are living a dead man’s life. Their silent tears are almost depressing. Mental betrayal can be a disastrous. It can happen to you too.

It’s only my opinion. What’s yours? Do let me know…

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Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Interview with Zinnia Mitra – A Windy Tale!

"Simplicity is extinct because it’s evaluated with a lot of complexity". 




Simple, Independent and Unpredictable! Zinnia Mitra is an upcoming photographer and a poet from the city of joy –Kolkata. Her photographs reflect her mood and her poetry deciphers her thoughts and the harsh realities of life. She thinks simplicity is extinct because it’s evaluated with a lot of complexity. So, let’s get acquainted with Zinnia Mitra's photography personally.

A Conversation Through Zinnia's Pictures!

Me: What mediums of creativity motivate you?

Zinnia: I get inspiration from my surroundings irrespective of what it is.

Me: What keeps you awake at night?

Zinnia: My mind...which never stops thinking, evaluating and creating.

Me: Three things people don't know about you?

Zinnia: I am arrogant when hurt, I am very well organized, and I know myself and my surroundings too well.

Me: Your poetry deciphers?

Zinnia: My thoughts and the realities around...

Me: What's seduction according to you?

Zinnia: Seduction according to me is conviction.



Me: What are the main factors influencing photographers today?

Zinnia: It depends on the kind of work they do...

Me: Do you want to take photography to the streets of Kolkata?

Zinnia: Yes, I would like to.

Me: Your pictures promote?

Zinnia: Nothing in specific

Me: Do you believe in fairy tales?

Zinnia: Yes

Me: Who is your favorite fictional character?

Zinnia: Aladdin

Me: why?

Zinnia: He is like the winds, he has a free will. He is simple yet charismatic.

Me: Do you believe in escapism?

Escapism is a part of human living...its inherent...

Me: Do you think photographers, poets and writers are escapist?

Zinnia: I believe every normal person is escapist. It just depends what medium they choose to escape....

Me: How do you balance practicality with your aesthetics?

The: I look at things as it is.


One word answers

What is life?--A photo album
Relationship- Necessity
Sex- Physical union
Drugs- Antibodies
Art- An expression
You-Wind
My blog-Cool

Her photography is all about nature, love, freedom and poetry. They speak louder than my words.


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Monday, January 18, 2010

Love, Lust And Poetry – A Story About Soft Addiction!


Sometimes everything looks so real, so close and so lovely. The wind around you pampers you, it soothes your soul. You want to jump with happiness without a definite reason, you want to cry and eventually you get addicted about love, lust and poetry. There are many things in this world, but the essence of life is defined by these three things. Everything looks unreal and monotonous if you don’t have these three things. You are just like a dead man walking without them. People crave for love everyday, every time, everywhere. You feel happy when somebody recognises your hidden smile. You feel good when somebody offers you a cup of coffee without any reason. Life without smiles, laughter and care is bad. Small things do matter a lot in a world where everything is so damn big.

A Story About Soft Addiction!

The idea of soft addiction is nothing but a way of feeling happy every time. It can be momentary as well as long lasting but it’s not an addiction basically. It’s another way to feel bliss. People are spending time online for caressing their soul. They are exchanging scraps for creating a bond, they are playing games for winning, and they are shopping for looking good. The way to happiness is fast now. The hidden urge for instant gratification is mounting with each passing day. The cold winter evenings with a coffee and cigarette and five good friends online can be fun. We don’t have to necessarily meet them to feel their love.

Soft Addiction maybe an evil for people who believes life is imaginary. It’s touted unrealistic because they aren’t believers of fairytales. Yet, they are the most successful ones in the society. They think poets are poor, weird and useless. Yes, they are right actually because they are the ones who drive a Merc and hang around with beautiful people. An unpublished poet is nobody. No one listens to them until they get recognition. Yet, the poetry will continue to blossom. It will grow with time. It’s an everlasting emotion. It’s not an addiction, it’s life!

Lust can be a negative term but it’s quite necessary to survive. It may be a weapon of Satan to destroy humanity but lust for knowledge, sex and fame is humane. If you’re detached from lust then you must go to jungles or to some mountains and chant for Nirvana. Soft addiction is a lovely obsession. I think spending time with your online friends or writing something meaningful in your blog can be a gratifying experience. You are at least in touch with the world unlike some funny people who thinks it’s an addiction. A blend of reality and fiction can be much more interesting than a mundane life. So, let’s come and share our feelings with the world, let’s have more friends, let’s embrace humanity because we need to talk, share and love for making this planet a better place to live…

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Thursday, January 14, 2010

Sunshine In Winter – Tips To Enjoy Sunlight In A Cold Winter Morning!


Sunshine in winter is bliss. It offers hope, freedom and love. It’s like a new beginning as everything looks so bright and fresh. People come out of their houses, streets get populated, shops get flooded and the love birds get a chance to flaunt their love with flamboyance in a sun drenched cold winter morning. The freshness of the morn enlightens our soul and we feel like humming our favorite song. Everything becomes so poetic.

Tips To Enjoy Sunlight In A Cold Winter Morning!

Feel the sunlight with closed eyes which will eventually soothe your soul. The fragrance will make you crazy. Sunshine in winter speaks many things. It makes you happy without a reason and it motivates you naturally. Everything looks good. In order to enjoy sunlight in a cold winter morning, you should preferably take hot tea or coffee and play your favorite song in your music player.

Sunshine in winter inspires a poet to compose beautiful poetry. They love to describe everything in details that eventually makes others happy in the days without sunshine. They can write because they know the technique of feeling it.

The joy of smoking and drinking coffee in a sunlit winter morning is inexpressible. You get transported to a different world. You see nightingales and angels. Winter sunlight is all about hope, love and freedom.

Enjoy your life, eat more ice creams, shed tears, make new friends, embrace happiness and feel the magical sunshine!

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What Boys Want – 5 Shocking Secrets About Boys Revealed!


All boys are different. There are various categories of guys. What boys want? This question will be answered here. I have interviewed almost 100 boys around the globe and came with this idea. Boys are boys. Boys do cry. They have emotions, they love to be loved and they can be extremely jazzy. It’s actually not easy to understand a man’s heart. People think that all men are straight forward but this article will expose every man’s psyche. The world is changing and even the needs of a man are shifting. Earlier they were considered masculine, responsible and dependable. But today they are more feminine, promiscuous and mysterious. I am not throwing mud but that’s a reality. There are three categories of man. The classification is extremely accurate. If you are wondering about which one is the ideal than you are almost wrong. No one is perfect because the world around them molds them. A genuine guy is hard to find because they no more exist. The definition of flawlessness is also altering with time. So, if you are on a hunt for the ideal guy than you should better stop your search.

5 Shocking Secrets Of Boys Exposed!

  1. What boys want? Men mainly want to be seduced by a girl whom they find hard to approach. They love to fantasize a lot. They are not perverts but they are avid dreamer. They love to date a good looking girl because that increases their reputation among friends and relatives while they date no-sot good-looking in undisclosed areas. If your guy is always forcing you to go to some lonely and inhibited region than you should better think twice.
  2. Every man is not lucky to have a girlfriend. Only the blessed ones get an opportunity to date a girl while others keeps dreaming and fantasizing. Some men are passionate about everything except sex. They can be a good friend but not a good lover. They are basically confused people.
  3. The first category in my list is refined and classy ones. These guys are hard to get types. They are extremely good looking and they love to have a beautiful girlfriend but unfortunately a good-looking guy never finds a charming girlfriend and vice versa. It’s a universal truth. So if you are a good looking girl than don’t expect your boyfriend to be equally handsome. However, there are exceptions everywhere. The classy types love to hang around for flaunting their good looks. They are mysterious and hard to understand. Yet, girls don’t love them much because they think that they are promiscuous. They mostly prefer arranged marriage after an age of flirting.
  4. The next type is of course extremely lovable. They are cute boys whose innocent smiles can flatter anyone. They are honest. Girls love to date a boy who is down to earth. These men are killers. Their chocolaty charm not only charms the opposite sex but they can also entice their parents. They are the next door neighbor types. They are extrovert.
  5. The third category of boys is the most interesting. These men are silent, intelligent and passionate. They are the learned ones. They mostly think about their career. Yet, they are less macho and extremely emotional. They are best ones. They mayn’t be charming but they can satisfy any girl in bed. They are less filmy. Most of the new age guys fall under this category. They have a good online presence because they hardly get time to date a girl. They are engineers, doctors, bankers and entrepreneurs. They are responsible guys. Yet, as I have already said that nobody is perfect. What boys want? Men mainly want to get recognition in life. They want every girl to get attracted to them. They aren’t jealous but they love challenges in life. They are choosy at the time of marriage. They may be in a live in relationship with a girl for years but when it comes to marriage they do take time. Boys are mysterious. All men need attention from the opposite sex. They love to have cosy moment with their partners before marriage. So, it’s not a big deal if your guy wants to sleep with you before marriage. At least he isn’t gay then. I know the gay community may hate this but I am coming up with something for them too.

Lastly I thank you people for listening to me. Hope I am true at least to some extent. Do reply….

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Let’s Help Haiti








Human race is again under threat.
The nature is angry.
I am sad because so many lives were gone
The devastating earthquake shook Haiti’s Port-au-Prince like never before.


Survivors are fighting their last battle.
Responsible citizens are constantly updating news about the victims.
The world is praying for Haiti and I am not an exception.
Let’s light a candle in our hearts,
Let’s pray for all the distressed families who lost at least someone.



Let’s lend a hand to Haiti through every single medium.
Let’s contribute love and peace.
I am praying for the ailing survivors with tears in my eyes.
Let’s help Haiti


Let’s help humanity…




(A silent prayer)


Support Doctors Without Borders in Haiti

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Are You Blogging For Sex? Tips To Enhance Your Blogging Experience Revealed!

Blogging for sex sounds quite weird but I know people who write for sleeping with different partners daily. They aren’t perverts but they are actually writers who write about maintaining relationships. Blogging and writing is becoming extremely popular now unlike yesteryears. Now a blogger with page rank 6 is given due respect. They are celebrities for a newbie. Now you can blog from your mobile. You can browse internet through various connecting devices like photon and YMAX etc. Technology is going places dude. I love innovation and therefore I love blogging. Are you blogging for sex? I know you don’t but I am sure you are blogging for love and some money. So, let’s read on to decipher the world of blogging.


                          
Tips To Enhance Your Blogging Experience Revealed!

Blogging can be fun, serious and informative. People blogs about technology, sex, love, relationship, money and of course life. You can easily enhance your blogging experience by joining some of the best hangouts places like Indiblogger, blogadda, blogcatalog. Make a habit to read and comment on some of the best blogs on earth like problogger and copyblogger. They are distributing magical potions for free. Why don’t you drink some?

Be a social blogger. Go and write a guest post for a friend’s blog that will eventually increase traffic to your blog. Write something you know deeply. You should avoid topics that aren’t your cup of tea. Creating your niche can make you a great blogger. Everyone is an expert in some field or the other but everyone doesn’t have the capability to spot their expertise.

Travel and observe people, culture, and behaviour for gathering spice for your blog. Make use of your offline experiences for rejuvenating your online presence. Write unique content. Write something that’s different. Make your blog informative and enjoyable.

Write anything that’s sounds good to you and eventually you will find lots of like minded people in the never ending cyber space. So, what are you waiting for? Go and write your heart out…



Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Cheap Popularity – It’s All About Cheap Popularity, Instant Gratification And Overnight Fame!

What is cheap popularity?  It’s fame that lives for a short time but people do crave for instant gratification, overnight fame and the so-called cheap popularity every now and then. Everyone can’t be Barack Obama, Robert Pattinson, Brad Pitt, Julia Roberts, Oscar Wilde, Drew Barrymore or Kim Kardashian. Popularity can be anything for a common man. It can be a recognition given to him by his Chai (Tea) Friends for cracking the funniest jokes, it can be a nice comment on your blog post from someone who likes your writing, and it can be anything from a sweet kiss from the hottest girl next door or a cricket century in your neighborhood park.


It’s All About Cheap Popularity, Instant Gratification And Overnight Fame!




Everyone is hungry for popularity but we can’t term them cheap popularity because they are something that transforms your life. They make you happy. They make you smile. The advent of reality shows is helping the common and talented people to transform their dreams into reality. It’s a great leap. They are getting money, fame and happiness simultaneously. They aren’t cheap popularity, they are life changing tales. Addiction to any nature is devastating. Therefore, it can be harmful if you run after success continuously. Cheap popularity can be dangerous when you perceive them differently. 




Till last year, I was addicted to instant gratification. I was hasty but now everything is stable. I am no more reckless. I am no hungrier for instant gratification. I am no more dazed. Cheap popularity, instant gratification and overnight fame aren’t bad things. In the world where everything is served at a light speed, it’s not a crime to expect a “great post” comment from someone who stays miles away from you.


Do you agree with me?







Monday, January 11, 2010

A Ghost-Writer’s Tale

Many terrific tales are told
Many new lives are formed
Many stories are moulded into books
Many autobiographies are written without a soul.

Poor, needy and sometimes generous
He walks a lonely road of hope
Unrecognised, unacknowledged, unfulfilled
Disguised, dilapidated and heartbroken
He walks through everything without a company

The tale of a ghost-writer has never been told
The rich and famous needs them without their name.
The ghost of a ghost-writer can be dangerous
They can be furious, frustrated and even reckless


They are free from criticism and applause
They are not worried about plagiarism
They live a life without a soul
A dead man is better than a ghost-writer.
There graves looks dull
A ghost-writer’s tale is gloomy

Many terrific tales are told
Many new lives are formed
Many stories are moulded into books
Many autobiographies are written without a soul.
I wish I could write about them
I wish I could make them as popular as the stars
I wish I could stop them from writing without their name…

(This poem is dedicated to all the ghost-writers of the world)


Flying Without Wings - Top 3 Tips To Fly Without Wings Unveiled!

Soft melodious music always entices me especially in a cold winter morning in a hill station like Shillong. The cup of hot tea never looked so pleasing. I can see the mountains from my cottage; I can feel a sense of joy from within. Flying without wings seems to be possible here. It’s one of the best things that I would ever do in my life. Far from the maddening crowd, miles away from the fighting spirit. I am actually leading a self styled laidback existence. The world around me is fresh, innocent and full of life. I am feeling like a young John Keats. I am no soul healing guru neither I promise nirvana but I do believe in the serenity of this divine place that can motivate anybody to write, read, play, enjoy and relax simultaneously.


Top 3 Tips To Fly Without Wings Unveiled!



Flying without wings is no more unpractical, it’s no more a poetic muse. It can be possible if you are willing to see the finer things of life rather than fighting over something that is unattainable. Everyone is afraid of failure but one should never run away from it. Failure makes you strong. Every great man failed once in their lifetime. Failing in exams, relationships, jobs etc. are fleeting things. Experiencing these things makes you a better person. Life without itches is boring. You can fly without wings by learning from your mistakes instead of crying over things that never meant for you.


The tug of war between the practical world and the world of materialism is never-ending but both are incomplete without each other. Writers, poets, philosophers, preachers can only give the idea of a perfect world that can be made possible by doctors, engineers, bankers, businessman, and politicians. It’s difficult to imagine a life without books. Yet, writers are always neglected and dumped till the time they don’t become a star like Chetan Bhagat or Ruskin Bond. An unpublished writer is poor, helpless and unattractive. No one cares about their writings. No one reads them but can you live without good movies, plays, books or music? The answer is definitely no. If you want to fly without wings than you should preferably rejuvenate your emotions with a good movie or a soulful song.


Recently, I have seen one of the finest movies made by Indian film industry called 3 Idiots. This movie is definitely an eye opener for millions of parents who force their son or daughter to pursue something that never meant for them. The film deals with a sensitive issue of suicide and expectations without any exaggeration. 3 Idiots is all about freedom, love, escapism and life. Every character in the movie is real. It’s you and me. It’s everyone. The ending is bright and beautiful.


Flying without wings is possible with a positive attitude, freedom of mind, love and a bit of sunshine!





Saturday, January 09, 2010

Old Photographs




Suddenly my past stands next to me
It cuddles and caresses my soul
The joy of yesteryears, those childhood moments
Those innocent smiles of my loved ones are still the same…

Those kids are now young adults, 
those beautiful girls now look little grown up
I still feel the same when I look through those old photographs.
The pages of my album looks little hazy now
Some lost friends, some lost relatives and some silent tears
Those old photographs still speaks the same.

People have grown older and wiser
Some are no more in between us
But the pages of my album still exude joy.
I love the way life changes…
Those old photographs in my mom’s wardrobe always rejuvenate me.
Suddenly my past stands next to me

Suddenly everything around me transforms…
The joy of yesteryears still beckons me endlessly.
Time changes, fashion changes, look changes
But those smiles never changes.
They are still the same…

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Something About Guwahati!

Amid confusions, turbulence and extreme low self esteem, finally I have decided to give a slow start to my never-ending dream. I have seen materialism in the rustic, I have seen smiling faces but finally I have experienced hope. This morning is full of music, laughter and poetry. My words and emotions are in sync and I am no more dazed. It’s becoming relaxing.


My trip to Guwahati is finally getting over. I saw, I felt and now I am carrying the memories along with me. Life in Guwahati is slow. People here are extremely passionate about music, dance and merry making. Every corner of this city exudes freedom and nostalgia, but I still feel like a stranger to this place. I am a loner in my own place. It’s not painful but it’s disgusting.


Life in a small town like Guwahati starts with a cup of tea and ends with a bottle of wine. You can find tea stalls and wine shops at an equal frequency here. The place is getting polluted with number of cars increasing with each passing day. People are getting rich. A tremendous gap is created between the old- new and the super new. You can find every type of crowd here. The golden Assam is finally witnessing Industrialisation. Major companies like Reliance, Vodafone, and Thomas Cook etc. are doing great here.


It’s extremely fascinating to see the amazing dressing sense of Guwahatians. It’s one of the most fashionable cities in India. The era of long silence is over. The colours, fragrances and the soil of Guwahati are different now. It’s on the process of metamorphosis. This change is definitely positive.


The blend of rustic and modern is the flavour of this place. You can find river island, boats, temples, hills, cottages and cineplexes here. The innocence and virginity of Guwahati is blissful. Come here to decipher creativity and freedom. Come here for love!


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Tuesday, January 05, 2010

Midnight Poetry – A Poem From My New Diary!
















When I scribble now
I feel suffocated
As I feel no inspiration
I become a helpless soul
Without the technical support


I am forgetting to write
My pen isn’t moving flawlessly
My words sound monotonous
But my inner desire to write is still alive.


The advent of the New Year is exciting
It’s almost different.
The ambience is rustic this time, as I am amid hills and valleys.
The mystical North-East is making me insane.
Its pure nature is making me diluted.

My old passion for diary writing have regenerated
But I am struggling to write now.
Writing without MS word is as difficult as climbing a building without stairs.
But I am determined to complete my midnight poem, which promises to exude bliss and freedom.



It feels so authentic, to write with a pen…