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Marriage Without Love Is No Marriage?





If you are still waiting for your perfect match, if you are still waiting in that bench alone, if you are still holding your dreams for her, then you should read this post. Are you that lucky in love? Are you waiting for a fairytale wedding or you are just waiting for miracles to happen? Are you happily married or unhappy in love? These questions often pester people of all ages. I don’t know what will be life like after marriage but loving someone without a reason is something which everybody craves for. 

Most love marriages end due to misunderstanding while most arranged marriages survive silently in pain. Nobody lives a perfect life but when you marry just to get settled in life, may be you are not doing it right. Marriage isn’t a job nor is it a degree that you should achieve as quickly as possible.  

Marriages are made in heaven and I think that’s true. If you love someone dearly than you should always try to get settled with your lover but you should never keep the other person in dark. It’s not fair to keep people in hanging position. Many relationships start from crush, some relationships evolve, some dies in oblivion and some stays throughout life. Some people just keep waiting throughout life for that perfect moment but only lucky ones get a chance to spend life with his or her soul mate. 

Love Marriage is a tough choice but arranged marriage is just impossible thing according to me. You can’t stay with a stranger throughout life. Marriage isn’t a contract, it’s a life long thing for Indians and if you are thinking it to be another passing phase, you are doing it wrong. Some people say in arranged marriage, love happens after marriage, may be that’s true. 

Arranged marriage only happens in a country like India where after the age of 29 a girl should get married. I don’t think it’s literally possible for every girl to marry as every female is unique and has their own priorities. I think it’s better to wait for the right person than to jump into a relationship just for society. Marriages shouldn’t be forced, it should be organised with consent. If you are thinking to get settled in life by marrying someone you don’t love, you are actually killing your heart. I know everyone’s not lucky to find the perfect match in such an imperfect world but it’s always advisable to make yourself perfect before you want your partner to be the best in the world. Wait for the right time, miracles do happen in real life. You never know when love rings your doorbell; you never know when that thing turns into a life long affair. Love before marriage is important and it’s love marriage that I acknowledge. 

This post is exclusively written for Sony Entertainment’s New TV show - Love Marriage ya Arranged Marriage Blogging Contest. For more information Like their Facebook Fanpage

16 comments:

  1. Short and simply put.. Nice read! :)
    Here's my take-http://perceptionsofaconfusedsoul.blogspot.in/2012/08/love-marriage-ya-arranged-marriage.html

    All the best for the contest :D

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  2. Thanks :D @Confused Soul..Will surely read your post :-)

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  3. Written well...

    Is the picture above a still from Notebook?

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  4. Thanks Rujuta :-) Yes! That's from my favorite movie - The Notebook :)

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  5. nicely written. my thinking is also more or less along the same line

    here is my take on the contest.

    http://weddingsandmarriages.blogspot.com/2012/08/love-marriage-ya-arranged-marriage.html

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  6. Hi Prasanna! Just read your post and it looks like "Love" is the only thing we crave for and if it starts before marriage then there's nothing like that for sure :-)

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  7. I agree with you Pallav, good to see you here, all the best :)

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  8. Thanks Ghazala for reading my post. All the best to you too :-)

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  9. Very well Written... I agree to you.... But once you are married for 2 years, its all same.. u had a love marriage or an arranged one doesn't make much difference...
    Only difference is made by how the couple carring of their relationship :)

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  10. True! It's tough to write or predict how will be my married life but it's love and care throughout the journey that matters. Let's give a thumbs up for love that can be re-kindled again and again :)

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  11. "Marriage isn’t a job nor is it a degree that you should achieve as quickly as possible".. Ha ha!

    But in arranged marriages nowadays, you get to see the other person sometime before you decide, so the risk factor is lesser.

    Marriage, whichever way it happens, is strong enough to make it work!

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  12. Finally it's love and if it's not there you are in a no marriage situation and there's room for love anytime :)

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  13. really wonderful post :) ma frst visit to ur blog!! :) m impress!! keep going,ol da bst !!
    http://palak1992.blogspot.in/2012/08/love-marriage-ya-arrange-marriage.html..visit mine if u get tym :)

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  14. Thanks Palak! Would love to visit your blog :)

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  15. Nice job Buddy..

    Marriage isn't a job..very well said..

    Way to go! :)

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  16. @Prasoon...Thanks for reading my post. People in India think marriages that are delayed are no marriage. It's like getting a job where a girl is forced to marry before a certain age and if she doesn't it becomes an issue and vice versa.

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