Rejection Phobia - A Typical Male Syndrome

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Microblogging! The new addition to the content hungry universe is making everyone bit crazy. Some people are investing hefty sum of money to gain followers, some folks tweeting extra sensible quotes, some individuals trying to be little humorous, the celebrities gaining millions of followers overnight and some people are still dazed. They retweet, copy paste some old quotations, sometimes news and views and most of the times they just keep gazing at the time line without having any words to write.

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The music of David Gilmour (On an Island) is creating a dreamlike ambience; the loner is busy writing his chronicle in his studio apartment, he is capturing the ecstasy of being lonely in an overcrowded city. He is mutely inhaling the drifting joy and the lingering silence, he is growing from within, he is catching the stars, and he is alive…

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Tuesday, May 22, 2012

You Are No Chaser – Tips To Read A Woman's Heart


Well! I am no dating coach or love doc, I am just a curious observer and a slow learner. These days I am getting unique itch to write about love, relationships, dating and things that actually makes me happy. I have no intention to spread love tips still the itch pushing me always to scribble my experiences, knowledge and my introspection with the world. So, let me express my mind through this blog post. I know, there are thousands of articles written on this topic but it would be no harm if I too write about it. 


Usually a guy of my age (28) would never chase a girl if she doesn’t show interest in me. It’s not that I have options but the fact is we are no chasers. I find it hard to persuade someone to love me. Love is a natural process, it’s something which grows from within, something that can be seen, felt and dreamt about. People usually don’t believe in miracles but in my case I am a firm believer of miracles and fairytales yet I am very practical. 


I know it’s difficult to read a woman's heart. The weather is always changing but I think there’s always some golden rules to find out a girl you like, likes you or not. You can actually read a girl’s heart from her gestures towards you. If she never replies to you text messages and hardly cares about calling you back that means she is not interested. Guys usually waste time by assuming things that can’t be true. They see dreams, they actually wait but time flies away very quickly. 


There’s no use of waiting for someone who never reciprocate your love. It’s sheer waste of time and nothing else. Well! My friend John loved a girl, he thought she loves him. He always kept her picture in his mind. He actually couldn’t love anyone else. I know that happens and my friend is no exception. John waited for his love for 6 years. He always expected a call from her but she never replied. John is still single and no one actually tell anything about her to him because he won’t believe anyone. I wrote this blog post for him. I just want to tell him, please don’t waste your time chasing a shadow. She is gone; she won’t look back at you. She is happy and you shouldn't make your life clumsy for her. It’s time to move on. 


I think if a girl is interested in you, she will make every arrangement to track your life. You won’t have to wait. She will be around you before time. A girl’s silence is the sign of her rejection. If she is silent means, she is unhappy. 


If a girl likes a boy, she won’t make him cry in loneliness. She won’t take a salt test. I hope John understands all these and makes his life happier than before. I hope I am 10% percent right because reading a woman's heart is more difficult than writing about them…

Monday, May 21, 2012

Why Victoria's Secret Models like Nerds?

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I thought of writing this because I am a fervent reader of Askmen, actually I like the way they create a story around everything. I was going through an article on Askmen that says – Dating Tips from Victoria’s Secret Models. Well! Victoria’s Secret Models are supposed to be very picky, classy and of course beautiful but the reality is - they are just another woman. They may be glamorised heavily, accentuated and presented in a unique way. They are secret finds but they are no sham. They are people with regular expectations but their delicateness is often misunderstood.


Dating tips given by Victoria’s angel won’t make you a fool out of yourself. For wooing Victoria’s secret models, you to have a good fashion sense for sure. You have to be well dressed but don’t you think a nerd can do that. Yeah! Of course not but the reality is they actually like guys who talk less about their money and give them more chance to express. Nerds make no great conversions but they are actually passionate about things around them.


You don’t have to be billionaire or world’s greatest hunk to be successful on a date. According to Victoria’s Secret Angels, a normal guy walking in the street of Paris can look attractive. Victoria’s secret angels love chocolates, ice creams, candle light dinners, wine, bike rides and Broadway shows. They usually take the pretext of time when they find things not working for them.


Victoria’s Secret Angels don’t love dating many guys at one time. They believe one at a time. Well! All nerds around must be thinking their chance is almost zero when it comes to Victoria’s secret models, then they are almost making a great slip-up. There’s nothing called perfect date or something in real life and if you’re expecting to perform 100% in your first date, you are actually doing it all wrong.


Victoria’s Secret Angels feel kissing on first date may not be the thing you should expect. Rather you should wait for your third date to make a decent move. This sounds like they are still living in a different era. Some people are faster than them for sure. Well! I wrote this article just to convey their feelings about love, date and choice. I don’t think anybody reading this would find dating a beautiful blonde reasonable option especially in a country like India.


You don’t have to be Victoria’s secret model nor have to date a nerd. All women are unique and everyone is born with special skill sets. It’s just important to be intelligent enough I guess.


Image: Adriana Lima

Friday, May 18, 2012

The Rise of Lonely Women in Urban India



Loneliness is a curse; it creates boredom that eventually kills the joy from within. Unlike United States where lonely girls have lots of outlets to vent out their desperation. India being a conservative nation, here women have to stay under rules. Some girls do try to break the monotony but most urban girls are dying each day of sheer loneliness. It’s a serious problem. Unlike yesteryears, now women think a lot before taking a step. They are independent but their independence has a price to pay. Their success becomes their enemy.


They become choosy, they lead a suave lifestyle, they have to look good always, they are more conscious about their weight. They have too many obligations. The urbanisation of India is gradually taking life away from us. Now urban girls prefer to stay single till they don’t find a guy who meets her expectations. She constantly searches for the right person but her search always goes in vain. Urban girls may have too many friends but from within they are always lonely.


Why there’s so much loneliness in metro cities? Indian urban girls are educated, they know many things. They are always better then boys. They are responsible still they are always lonely and single. The question kills them every time. Whenever they look at couples, they try to think of mingling but the guys whom they want to date aren’t available for them and time flies away. Girls in India faces serious problem between the age group of 25-29. If they are single, then the problems become lethal. We are a part of confused generation; we are actually sandwiched between the new and the old.


Unlike western countries, girls in India should get married before 30. If you aren’t married, society will raise question. The life of a single girl becomes too difficult. They search for the soul mates in marriage parties, pubs, online sites, almost everywhere but they fail to get the man of their dream. But life isn’t so dark. There’s always hope. There’s always a better life after a brutal break up, there’s life beyond the boundaries, there’s road to escape. The shadow of loneliness will only leave you if you look outside your window, and see the beauty inside your soul.

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Why Indian Girls Love Geeks?




Finally the world is changing for good; it’s definitely the era of Geeks. Earlier geeks were touted to be perverts, dirty, tacky and what not but slowly the human race is embracing Geek culture. Girls in India no more chase guys with six-packed abs. Studs with no brain are sheer wastage. Geeks are no more seen alone in the pubs, they are surrounded by girls everywhere. If the entire paragraph is sounding like a fiction, then let me prove why Indian girls love geeks.


Geeks are fashionable. They wear big glasses, moccasins, imaginative T-shirts. Geeks understand culture and society. They are intellectual, they are perfect lovers. When they aren’t working, geeks spend their time browsing things. They are mostly found online. They keep sharing awesome things.


Girls in India love geeks because they are ultra-cool. They don’t get involved easily. They give enough space to you. They are possessive but they don’t try to strangle your life by imposing rules unlike normal guys. They may not drive fast cars still girls love to stay with them.


Geeks have emotions; they are actually passionate about everything they do. Geeks won’t dump you, they won’t let you cry, they will try to mould themselves according your life. Geeks are no more misunderstood. They are no more bullied rather they are appreciated everywhere. It’s cool to be a geek now.Indian girls living in the metros need companion but mostly they get the wrong person who dumps her. But if you have a geek companion, you are in safe hands for sure. They will you keep you happy with their geeky things. They will design a collage, make a talking toy or compose a song in their laptop for making you happy.


Geeks are ruling the planet with their awesome ideas and girls in India know that for sure. They are the future CEOs and billionaires. Girls no more look for an offline guy. They love people who constantly keep in touch with them. You are just outmoded if you aren’t hanging out in social networking sites and the fact is geeks are always online. They are the creators of fairytales and science fiction. They are imitated by models and actors. Now filmmakers make movie on geeks and they show them in a better light for sure unlike American Pie movies.If you are a geek and reading this, you should leave a comment and join the community of this new age clan who cares for the society. Geeks are gems and Indian girls have the unique skill to smell the hidden treasure inside every geek.




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Tuesday, May 15, 2012

How to Romance Like Jim Morrison?






Jim Morrison was an eccentric person, he did things that people considered vulgar. He did all notorious stuff, all his stage performances were erratic, he slept with his fans, he was bad, he was exceptionally rude at times still Jim Morrison is alive in our hearts, in our soul, in our existence. Still we recite his poetry, still we listen to his songs, still we talk about his eternal romance. Apart from all his notorious deeds and uncanny moves, Jim was the greatest lover of all time. He was chased by girls after his performances; he was young, energetic, and brutally addictive. 


He is the God of Cult Rock. 


In a hot summer evening, in some corner of the universe, I am writing about him because I feel a deep connection from within. Jim Morrison always inspired me. His poetries were considered amateurish, his behaviour was considered rude, he wasn’t a conventional young guy. His love with Pamela Courson wasn’t very soft. They fought and made love, they did drugs together. All these things may not be considered good but I feel he is immortal because of his misdeeds and extreme talent to see the future ahead of his counterparts. He predicted about music, he once said that music will become electronic. 


Well! It’s time to justify the title of my article. How to romance like Jim Morrison? I won’t say that you have to be a great singer and poet like him, I won’t say that you have to behave like him, I won’t ever ask you to do drugs to feel ecstasy but I will surely recommend you to see life from a different angle. Think about your life without the existence of your partner, think about the cruel world which will never understand your eccentricity, think about the strangers who will always speak and perceive you as a madman. 


In order to romance like Jim Morrison, you have to be really nice guy. No matter how people treat, never be rude to anybody. Be eccentric but not cruel, be passionate from within and eventually people around you will know you from inside. Make your loneliness productive; make yourself alive by listening to music. Throw aside your anger and take a break from the monotony by doing things you love most. In order to be like Jim Morrison, you have to read his poetry, listen to his songs and browse through his tales.  


The silence in your life is Jim, he is your guiding light, whenever you are upset, read his poetry book. You will eventually know what life do to passionate people. You will be misunderstood everywhere, you will be dumped, you will be kicked but you will have people like you, people who will understand your madness, people who will make you feel strong enough to survive. 


In order to love like Jim Morrison, you have to be yourself. You have to write, talk and express whatever you feel. You don’t have to be straight forward because that will hurt the person who doesn’t know you. Be silent and follow the tide. You will feel the soft breeze touching your golden cheeks, wait till the moon goes down, there will be a perfect dawn...

Monday, May 14, 2012

You Are No New York Times Bestselling Author Still You Rock!




You have no idea about writing, you have no grammar sense, you have no past experience, you are no writer. You may not know anything about writing still your words can be echoed all around the galaxy, still you will be heard and your stories will be narrated in days to come. You can’t write about fashion, you are no technology geek, you write fluff, you have no logic, you just keep blabbering whatever comes to your mind. Your words don’t have to be too complicated that people should keep a dictionary whenever you write something. You don’t have to be a research scholar for creating an epic. You must have seen Hollywood movies, I know they are great. They do lots of research before making it. They have technology, they have infrastructure, they have everything that we don’t have but the best part is we have experiences to share. We have summers, we have colourful culture, we have diversity, we have festival of lights, festivals of colours, festivals of love, and we have people who understand us. Indians speak good English, they can write even better still we are considered poor and uneducated and that’s the beauty.


If writing is your passion, and writing a book is your soul ambition in life then you should come to India at least you will get lots of “Spice” as we Indians are too hot and saucy, at least we think so. Writers here are considered poor, they usually struggle to make it big, and they literally live like a drifter. That’s an old assumption; I must say you have lots of opportunity here. Things are different now. Writers are no more poor guys, they even drive fast cars and understand pop culture. You don’t have to be a scholar to write a novel, you don’t have to lock yourself up to write about loneliness. It’s your experience that matters. If you have no experience about nightlife in New Delhi, you can’t even write a fiction about it and most bestselling writers usually goes through a moment of crisis and that crisis makes them a great author. There’s nothing called good, bad or ugly writer. A writer is a writer. If your words are real, your feelings are genuine, and your heart throbs when you press those words in the keypad, you become a writer. Writing comes from within. Writing as a career is tough, there’s thorn every where, the only thing that’s constant in a writer’s career is struggle that exudes experience.


I have written all this not prove that a writer’s life is difficult; I wrote this to express my satisfaction to be one. Well! There’s a long way to go, I will stumble upon more people, will learn more everyday, laugh at things that I am writing today. There’s no limit to my thoughts, you never know what’s your future will be like still I think you don’t have to be a Newyork Times Bestselling author to be a real rockstar in the writing game. You just have to be yourself and move on.




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Wednesday, May 09, 2012

Imagine a Day without Women







Mr. Jonathan likes watching women from his balcony, Smith often spends his day chatting with his girl friends, Phillip plays guitar to impress his college mates. Imagine a day without women. Don’t you think life will lose its meaning? There will be no motivation, no excitement left in this world. People keep shouting slogans about saving trees, protecting rare animals but nobody ever talks about saving women. Don’t you see a decline in the women population in our country? Don’t you feel the world will end eventually if there are no women? 


All men will drink, smoke and talk about the women they once loved. All shopping malls will get closed down; the gardens of love will be flooded by dry maple leaves. There will be no competition in colleges; guys like Jonathan will eventually die. The beauty of women decorates the entire planet, provides light to the dingy corridors, add inspiration to every art work. The girl in the metro station that you always encounter elevates your dreams, the women from your neighbourhood supplies all that great food. Women are the sole reason for the creation of greatest monuments. It’s woman who lights up your existence. 


Now that we all know, life without women is impossible therefore we should forget about imagining things that can’t be true. If there are men, there will be women, if there are trees, there will be love birds around, if there are movie theatres, there will be couples cuddling near you for sure. A day without women is that dark fiction that no men will ever try to read. Well! If you are a women hater, if you are one who got betrayed badly, please don’t crib and curse all the women. Life isn’t the same everyday. There’s a silver lining always. So, the major takeaway from this post may be - respect and love women instead of killing them before birth. 


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