Rejection Phobia - A Typical Male Syndrome

Blind dates, long distance affairs, telephonic relations, pen friends, childhood crushes and a typical male behind them all! Everyone is unique, every man is different. Yet, the fear of rejection always lurks like an inevitable shadow around an urban man. So, let’s find out more about this typical male syndrome.

Ex Girlfriends, Ghosts and That Secret Potion of Desire

Sweet melodies of yesteryears often soothe his soul. Confused past, hazy memoirs and long drives in his father’s old gypsy illuminates his apartment. The shadows of his ex girlfriends keep haunting him. Those larger than life greeting cards, those soft toys, those bracelets, those watches, those letters are locked inside his closet. Time changes, feelings evolve, old friends reunites. The air never remains the same.

How to Tweet Like Jim Morrison

Microblogging! The new addition to the content hungry universe is making everyone bit crazy. Some people are investing hefty sum of money to gain followers, some folks tweeting extra sensible quotes, some individuals trying to be little humorous, the celebrities gaining millions of followers overnight and some people are still dazed. They retweet, copy paste some old quotations, sometimes news and views and most of the times they just keep gazing at the time line without having any words to write.

Bedroom Story - What Indian Women Want In Bed?

Indian women are flawless, intelligent and wild in bed. They know the art of taming a wild stallion, they knows the magic of weaving a satisfying tale. Everyone is unique and every girl has their priorities.

Winter Loneliness - Why Loneliness is Ecstatic?

The music of David Gilmour (On an Island) is creating a dreamlike ambience; the loner is busy writing his chronicle in his studio apartment, he is capturing the ecstasy of being lonely in an overcrowded city. He is mutely inhaling the drifting joy and the lingering silence, he is growing from within, he is catching the stars, and he is alive…

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Sunday, November 25, 2012

It’s Always the Silent Ones?

What girls want? That’s actually a vague question. They keep changing like weather and their needs change accordingly. It’s better not to try understanding them because the more you get inside them; the more you get into problem. It’s like playing safe and think less. No girl likes a philosopher who tries to decipher the mysteries hidden inside a girl’s closet. They like to stay mysterious so that they can use their weapons timely. Well, I shouldn't get distracted from the title so here’s my study. 

Some girls usually take time to open up while some girls take no time to open up to a perfect stranger. Some girls are quite while some girls keep talking. There’s an age for everything but for some age is merely a number. Every girl is unique and it’s very difficult to understand them. Some girls like successful man, some run after money, some run after reputation, some girls like tall boys, some like dark boys and some girls like security guards read bodyguards. They dream about a guy who may not be perfect but the guy should at least have something. I often see the jerks getting the best ones because they think less and perform more. Well, that’s about girls so let’s get into the real thing. Which type of girls can be extremely desirable in bed

Most guys often get wrong here. Girls who read books, magazines, write are the ones who rule the entire planet. Yes, the silent ones who talk less and perform more. They have all the energy and know all the techniques for satisfying any man. Quite girls generally don’t talk but they can woo anyone with their body language, eye movements,touch and their knowledge and experience. They are the real ones, only silent girls can give a man the so-called perfect orgasm. Silent girls can also be very dangerous because they know everything. Never try to hurt the silent ones because they may not say you anything but they are very sensitive. Always try to read their mind because they are the ones who will give you everything you want. 

Boys usually look for good looks (hot girls and stuff) but it’s always advisable to date a girl who reads a lot. Knowledge is everything. Silent girls won’t betray you if you love them but if you play with their emotions, she won’t leave you for sure, she will make your life hell and the worst part is you won’t know that she is doing that. It’s not an easy affair to handle the silent types, they need constant pampering, they constantly get mood swings, life may not look that easy. The silent ones are also escapists in nature. They are mysterious types but they are very loyal to their partners. So, don’t dare to do anything that hurts them. Well, I may be wrong but things keep changing, I know girls who like boys without money or looks. Liking someone is completely a different issue. I think girls who are usually silent and read more can be extremely good in bed. Just Remember One Thing - It's always the Silent Ones...What do you think?

The Virtual Man

The smoke cleanses his soul
Humidity nurtures his skin
His goodness is ill-treated
He foolishly smiles in his dungeon.

He scribbles about absurdity
He talks about fiction
Words betray him
His heart’s crater
Grow each year in misery.

There’s no window in his galaxy
No raindrops, no beautiful memories
He create images of shadows
There’s no room for illumination.

The virtual man that he is
For people around him
His confusion dilute relationships
He is misunderstood.

The solitary wind in his mind
Keep accentuating his scars
The virtual man lives in reality
But the reality never embraces him.

The sunshine touches his skin
Makes him numb, elevates his soul
The virtual man no more cares
About the world, he becomes cold hearted
He makes his own world,
where he is selflessly pampered.

His illusions grow
He sees magic around
He smiles and walks away
Without remorse, without glee…

Friday, November 23, 2012

Ugliness Is a Blessing…

 When the world taunts you
When rejection becomes a reality
When curse strikes your soul
When scars become your identity.

You become numb
You learn to live with them
You experience pain
Your pain becomes your love
You start loving your blemishes.

Your imperfections haunt you
You hide, you become invisible
Your invisibility taunts you again
You shiver in a hot summer noon
Amid nightmares, rudeness, dejection
You try to alter your truth.

Your fantasy ends up unknowingly
Your living room stinks
Ugliness becomes your buddy
You see no hope
All your hopes die in oblivion.

One day you look in the mirror
It tells how beautiful you are
You smile; you take a sigh of relief
You become visible  
You successfully break free
From the man-made notion
You discover that misplaced soul
You silently cherish your inner freedom…

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Urban Loneliness – It’s No Myth!


There are days of glory, there are days of fun, there are days of silence, there are days of anonymity, there are days that speaks nothing but exude some kind of fire. The fire of loneliness. You get tired of walking alone, seeing the same kind of people while travelling, you get tired of the boredom that unconsciously became a part of your existence. You are growing old, your charm fading into oblivion, you are getting no special attention, you are moving in sheer desperation. There is serious crisis in your life, your life curses your existence, your wings are no more visible to you. You speak things that hurt people, your silence even pesters your loved ones, and you have no idea what you are doing. You are staying in an unknown island surrounded by known people. Your life becomes ridiculous; you scratch your head in search of ideas that no more entertains or motivate you. You lose the excitement that life has to offer. You become insane, you become unattractive, boring and finally you try to sleep to forget everything but nightmares keeps you awake and every morning you walk with a curse of not doing anything worthwhile. You find yourself nowhere; you just feel that pain from inside. You never smile; your smiles are never real. Expectations create burden, you try to close your eyes in peace but the chaos of living never abandons.

You can’t get so bored, why don’t to meet up friends? Why don’t you settle down? These questions make you more frustrated. You see happy faces all around, you feel jealous, you sulk, and you finally lock yourself up in your living room. You talk to no one. You become unpredictable and finally you try to escape. You try to disconnect yourself from your near and dear ones, you torture them, you take pleasure by doing these things. Your loneliness becomes your friend and foe. You become an urban zombie. You wait for things to change inside and around you but nothing really changes. You try to reform yourself but you get carried away by things that you shouldn’t do.

Life’s mess, it’s sinking, it’s taking everything away, it’s becoming ruthless, your dreams are fading away, people despises you for your insanity. Misery becomes a part of your life. You keep whining about your half cooked life at large. There are too many cons of living in a big city. There are lights all around that overshadows the light inside you. You live anonymously in some corner, your curse your mediocrity every time. Life of no pleasure, life of secret adventures, life that tries to pull you down, life where you get things that you don’t want but somewhere there’s a tiny little feeling of hope. It keeps you going, you become strong, you recover, you try to move on…