Rejection Phobia - A Typical Male Syndrome

Blind dates, long distance affairs, telephonic relations, pen friends, childhood crushes and a typical male behind them all! Everyone is unique, every man is different. Yet, the fear of rejection always lurks like an inevitable shadow around an urban man. So, let’s find out more about this typical male syndrome.

Ex Girlfriends, Ghosts and That Secret Potion of Desire

Sweet melodies of yesteryears often soothe his soul. Confused past, hazy memoirs and long drives in his father’s old gypsy illuminates his apartment. The shadows of his ex girlfriends keep haunting him. Those larger than life greeting cards, those soft toys, those bracelets, those watches, those letters are locked inside his closet. Time changes, feelings evolve, old friends reunites. The air never remains the same.

How to Tweet Like Jim Morrison

Microblogging! The new addition to the content hungry universe is making everyone bit crazy. Some people are investing hefty sum of money to gain followers, some folks tweeting extra sensible quotes, some individuals trying to be little humorous, the celebrities gaining millions of followers overnight and some people are still dazed. They retweet, copy paste some old quotations, sometimes news and views and most of the times they just keep gazing at the time line without having any words to write.

Bedroom Story - What Indian Women Want In Bed?

Indian women are flawless, intelligent and wild in bed. They know the art of taming a wild stallion, they knows the magic of weaving a satisfying tale. Everyone is unique and every girl has their priorities.

Winter Loneliness - Why Loneliness is Ecstatic?

The music of David Gilmour (On an Island) is creating a dreamlike ambience; the loner is busy writing his chronicle in his studio apartment, he is capturing the ecstasy of being lonely in an overcrowded city. He is mutely inhaling the drifting joy and the lingering silence, he is growing from within, he is catching the stars, and he is alive…

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Thursday, June 20, 2013

Why Bloggers Are Considered Insanely Attractive?

Blogging is one of the trendiest things to do in the era of digital revolution. Bloggers are mad people, insane bunch of geeks, suave and extremely gorgeous people around. Earlier blogging was just a hobby for many however times changed and the people who wrote clich├ęs became millionaires. Some blogs died in oblivion while others succeeded. People started liking their blogs, people started talking about the things the blogger wrote. They became experts and they got perks they never expected.

In America, almost everyone stays online 24*7 while Indians are slowly catching up. I could see people carrying smart phones all around me. What they mostly do? They play games, listen to music and reads digital content. The future is here and we can’t deny the existence of bloggers. They are ones who write things from their hearts. If they go through a bad experience, they write. If they see a beautiful girl while travelling, they write. When they feel bored, they write. When they feel pain, they write.

They have an audience, friends to support and acknowledge them and suddenly their blogs get so popular that they are just acquired by the mainstream media. There’s hell lot of money hidden inside your words. You just have to write genuine things instead of following the trend. There are no golden rules to success.

You can’t make money overnight. If you blog to earn money, you are most probably at the wrong place. Blogging gives you freedom to flaunt your experiences with the world. It gives you power to declare your feelings after watching a movie and if your words are real, you become a Maven, an extremely attractive person. People will follow your hairstyle, people will wear what you wear, people will slowly talk about you. You will make enemies; you will make friends for life. Blogging can be an addiction too.

Now the question is – Why bloggers are considered insanely attractive in the digital age? Well, you simply can’t live without Internet. You need information, you need poetry, you need fiction, you need motivating people around, you need things that can change your life. You can’t survive without the written words.

If you are thinking about something very beautiful to happen in your life, just blog about it, if you need your poetry to be read by the most intelligent crowd around, just put it in your blog, if you are a Tarrot card reader, just help people online. Blogging is everything, if you are a blogger, you somehow acquire all the capabilities of an online marketer. You learn so many things during the process. You actually become invincible.

Blogging is freedom, blogging is the best outlet to vent out your pent up emotions, it’s one of the best thing to do if you have very little or too much happening in your life. Just don’t let those important moments in your life go away. Capture them in the form of words  and read them after 10 years. I bet you can’t stop smiling at those kiddish stuffs.

Bloggers are insanely attractive because they actually feel things, they live a perfect life, they are mad, they crib, they cry still they survive no matter how life treats them. They are the children of Darwin, they are the future of our generation.  

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Premarital Sex Is Marriage - Is India Finally Evolving?

Well, The Hindu today published a shocking article that changes the whole concept of marriage at large. Now, you don’t have to follow the rituals or go to court for a legal marriage. You just have to have sex with your partner to get married. This sounds extremely absurd but the truth is you are actually married if you have pre-marital sex.

In the dot com age, no one actually wants to go through all those religious ceremonies. It’s actually a great decision taken by Madras High Court.

What are the pros and cons of this declaration?

  • India is a conservative country compared to the West but people here are human beings too. They crave for sex and most of the relationships usually meet this final point. You can’t deny the fact that pre-marital sex exist in India. It’s a very common thing everywhere but people still find it hard to express because they think it’s an evil.
  • Unlike yesteryears, the new age population marry late. They want to first get settled down hence pre-marital sex becomes a reality between couples. Earlier boys and girls used to marry at the age of 18 – 25 but now it’s extended to 30-35. Pre-marital sex is very much there in colleges too but people in India feel shy to embrace this fact.
  • Madras High Court must have felt the need to make this decision at the right hour. If you are enjoying sex with your partner and have a pure intention to marry, why not make it legal. With this decision, there will less case of cheating. Most people don’t want to make their marriage a public affair, for them it’s a blessing in disguise.
  • However there will be people who are involved in more than one relationship for them it will be difficult to handle the compensation. The decision looks more like an idea for future but the fact is it’s a law now. You are married if you had sex with your partner and you can’t leave him or her without the interference of the court. Good news for the lovers, bad news for people having an one sided affair.

So, what’s your take on it? Are you confused or will you take this decision in the right spirit and declare your marriage with your girlfriend/boyfriend right away? Will this decision disturb parents? There are many questions that will arise in future? I think if you are struggling to convince your parents or your lover’s parents, then this might work like a magic wand for your relationship.

Sunday, June 09, 2013

Is Suicide The Best Answer? RIP Jiah Khan

Some people are born to die; living is not the best thing in life. If you are struggling everyday, if you get pain at every step, if you are lonely, you should take the stairs to heaven where there is endless peace. There’s no stress, no hate, no comparison, no relationship problem. There are thousands of Jiah Khans in India who are suffering from the everyday problems. Life is no bed of roses for the lonely people; they are vulnerable and subjected to all types of humiliation. They are cheated, dumped and betrayed. They are misunderstood, they are declared as morons.

There’s a better world beyond this planet. People here are ruthless, doubtful and ignorant about things. They are biased, everybody is running after perfection, everybody wants to shine; everybody here is chasing a mirage. Loneliness is a curse; you become cranky, pervert and solitary souls without an identity. Nobody can actually see your tears, nobody can actually find out what’s inside your heart, nobody actually understands what you want. There are parental pressures. People scoff at you, they scold you and take you for granted.

Suicide is the last resort of loner. There’s no use of dying everyday. It’s better to end your life if the pain overwhelms you. Death is the only answer. Give no pain, take no pain. I could see people running for bread and butter, I could see people crying inside a Merc, I could see people jumping from their Penthouses, I could see people killing themselves more in future.

Life is a puzzle and only the lucky ones survive and others die in oblivion because they somehow think everything from their hearts. India is a land of cunning people, everybody here wants to meet success overnight. Everyone is under a magic spell called Money.

You can’t buy your happiness; you can’t make yourself smile if the world around you tries to pull you down. Jiah Khan committed suicide because she felt lonely. Her loneliness gave her pain and that unbearable pain inspired her to commit take her life. These things happen when you have no one near you to guide, nobody actually cares about you. You become numb and everything falls apart. There are too many suicide forums online where people are discussing the easiest ways to die. There are many vagabond souls who want to die.

When life becomes predictable, when the magic of yesteryears fade away, you become so numb from inside that you have no reason left to survive. You try to run away from everything, you lock yourself inside your room, you talk to no one. If you are depressed, you should probably take a break and meet people whom you love most. You should write, you should do everything that makes you happy but don’t lock yourself inside a room.

You are important, you are beautiful, you are priceless. Don’t compare, don’t judge, just be yourself because you are unique and nobody can actually replace you. Take a leap of faith, be a dreamer. You will start living again. You will start smiling again…