Rejection Phobia - A Typical Male Syndrome

Blind dates, long distance affairs, telephonic relations, pen friends, childhood crushes and a typical male behind them all! Everyone is unique, every man is different. Yet, the fear of rejection always lurks like an inevitable shadow around an urban man. So, let’s find out more about this typical male syndrome.

Ex Girlfriends, Ghosts and That Secret Potion of Desire

Sweet melodies of yesteryears often soothe his soul. Confused past, hazy memoirs and long drives in his father’s old gypsy illuminates his apartment. The shadows of his ex girlfriends keep haunting him. Those larger than life greeting cards, those soft toys, those bracelets, those watches, those letters are locked inside his closet. Time changes, feelings evolve, old friends reunites. The air never remains the same.

How to Tweet Like Jim Morrison

Microblogging! The new addition to the content hungry universe is making everyone bit crazy. Some people are investing hefty sum of money to gain followers, some folks tweeting extra sensible quotes, some individuals trying to be little humorous, the celebrities gaining millions of followers overnight and some people are still dazed. They retweet, copy paste some old quotations, sometimes news and views and most of the times they just keep gazing at the time line without having any words to write.

Bedroom Story - What Indian Women Want In Bed?

Indian women are flawless, intelligent and wild in bed. They know the art of taming a wild stallion, they knows the magic of weaving a satisfying tale. Everyone is unique and every girl has their priorities.

Winter Loneliness - Why Loneliness is Ecstatic?

The music of David Gilmour (On an Island) is creating a dreamlike ambience; the loner is busy writing his chronicle in his studio apartment, he is capturing the ecstasy of being lonely in an overcrowded city. He is mutely inhaling the drifting joy and the lingering silence, he is growing from within, he is catching the stars, and he is alive…

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Saturday, May 21, 2016

The Bigger, The Better: Why I Find Plus-Size Women Lethally Attractive?

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Going against the common perception of slimness being more attractive, I prefer fat girls over slender women. Plus-size girls look more attractive because of their profound assets while women still want to look slim everywhere. Losing weight constantly forces them to avoid food they love. The whole process of losing fat makes their life messy. They live in a constant fear of rejection because of their weight but the fact is Fatness is the new Hotness, which nobody's saying openly. Men prefer plus-size women over skinny girls.

Fat girls often sacrifice their happiness in search of diets and other methods to shed those extra kilos while there's nothing like being fat and happy. The portrayal of slender girls in Fashion shows, TV and Cinema makes women think slimmer girls are conventional beauties. Men love to date a plus-size girl because they feel they look great in yoga pants as well as in saree. The desire for curves in women is the only truth men seek to propel their fantasies.

The whole concept of beauty is a mere illusion and a thought created by manmade notions. 

The wish to wear a Bikini is inherent in every woman's mind but they think, they would look vulgar in a swimsuit with those protruding belly fat. The whole concept of beauty is a mere illusion and a thought created by manmade notions. Being fat is no offence and instead of losing those god gifted curves, women should rather try to be themselves and try to flaunt their curves with complete ease. A healthy voluptuous woman is what men prefer. Slowly the fashion industry is evolving and they are focusing in portraying real women with hourglass figure instead of skinny, tall models without the feminine curves.

The bigger the better is the new dictum and women with serious cleavage and half-moon butts are hogging the limelight. 

There is a difference between being fat and being fit. A plus-size woman can also remain fit with a good diet and lifestyle. Instead of trying to lose weight, women should focus more on living a healthy life. Popular voluptuous vixens like Kim Kardashian and Ashley Graham are truly altering the concept of slim is beautiful. The bigger the better is the new dictum and women with serious cleavage and protruding butts are hogging the limelight. Plus-size women are no more escaping from the attention rather they are flaunting their assets with innovative dressing and walking on the ramp with feline ease. They are more comfortable and confident about their weight. The fading Bikini Phobia proves the fact that women are now much more confident about their body than before.

It's time to change the entire artificial notion of fatness being unattractive. We are living in an era where everybody wants to look glamorous, thinner and sleeker but in the whole journey, we are living a life under the pressure of not eating right and sacrificing things we like. We are actually living for others.
The allure that plus-size women exude can never be compared to a girl without any assets.
We are now getting the true picture through social media and blogs, where people are writing about their likes and dislikes and the world, is more transparent now hence we are now getting the true picture of beauty. You may disregard my opinion about fat being attractive but you can't deny the fact that plus-size women don't look gorgeous and appealing in a Bikini. The allure that plus-size women exude can never be compared to a girl without any assets. I am not demeaning those who feel losing weight would give them a better personality however I am stating that being fat is no crime and we love women full of those divine curves.

Tuesday, May 10, 2016

Preventing Digital Apocalypse: Just Remember You've Been Warned

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Ryan loves to blog about rock concerts, nightlife and weird adventures that he takes up in his free time. He is constantly found gazing at his blog, and reading his own content and editing it every time. His passion for blogging started 9 years ago and still he is getting equal delight in sharing his experiences with the world. Ryan loves to write about upcoming bands and concerts. Since 2006, he almost wrote 400 blog posts and received more than 5000 comments. In the whole process, he made lifetime friends and his work been appreciated by many.

Suddenly one day, Ryan loses access to his 9-year-old blog because the server where his blog was hosted just got hacked. All his write-ups vanished and he no longer found them online. All the interactions with fellow bloggers, his digital achievements and most importantly the story he wrote about Tomorrowland couldn’t be found anywhere on the web. Ryan lost everything but I hope you won’t afford to lose your all your work in this digitally empowered world.

The rise of digital storytelling testifies the amount of passion involved in writing about stuff you care about. You can’t afford to lose your online documents because of some stupid server error or a wrong code. It’s almost scary to see your hard work lost into oblivion. There are always loopholes in technology but preventing such disasters is possible. As I have written earlier about the Digital Dark Age, which may become the reality if present documents aren’t made ready for future use. Because formats become obsolete with time, something which is working may not work in future.

The classic case of floppy disks, tape recorder and video tapes confirm the evidence of formats getting obsolete.  We have lost many important data due to format up-gradation and we no longer afford to lose them now.  Online written content in the form of blogs, slide shows, and images may become obsolete in future because technology changes hence taking back-ups of your blog are the need of the hour. You can convert all your blog posts into PDF and keep a back-up of your files in your computer. Printing out written materials is what I suggest because if there’s a Digital Apocalypse by any chance, you can start everything afresh with those printed materials. Keeping your files in both Print and Digital formats will help you to prevent Digital Apocalypse.

Lately, millions of blogs are affected when a blogging platform’s server went down. Bloggers all around the world started tweeting about this. That was just a temporary issue but it gave nightmares to millions of bloggers who passionately invested their time for providing original content to the world.  Such incidents are eye-openers for people who not only write for the moment but also write for the future generation.  We are living in a digital era and we need to be protected from attacks that can shatter our Digital dreams.  Do it before it’s too late, print out your blogs or save it safely somewhere offline for surviving the onslaught of unpredictable Digital Apocalypse, before it’s too late.


Saturday, May 07, 2016

In the Era of Artificial Mountains and Vertical Farms

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Jonathan loves to travel a lot, especially hill stations where he practices meditation. He is always on a hunt to discover newer places. He lusts over tourist-free destinations and greener patches. He is an escapist because he is tormented by the regular chaos of urban life. He is bored of seeing people running behind public transport, he is tired of inhaling poisonous smokes that make him sick. Jonathan wears a mask to survive the dangers of global warming. He lives in a skyscraper and sees no trees. The increasing pollution and human drilling for wealth all around make people like Jonathan escape to a place full of life. The modern world is turning into a dusty town where every drop of rain matters hence futurists all around the world is working hard to create things that will completely change the face of the modern world.

We surely live in interesting times where technology is trying to manipulate Nature. Don't worry about the future as the world seems to be inventing new things every day to preserve humanity. UAE, for instance, is trying to create artificial mountains for cloud formation and rain. The impact of global warming is huge in people's lives hence, it's the right time to create something to stop the upcoming apocalypse and there are scientists creating exciting stuff to preserve mankind from extinction.

Artificial Mountains promise to transform the dry areas into lush green places. It's a mammoth initiative to colonize unlivable places on Earth while vertical farming seems to be one of the greatest inventions to grow food in crowded and infertile places. Both these initiatives are pro-humanity and will surely change the face of this world by 2025. It would be no surprise to see people buying fresh vegetables from a vertical farm from a supermarket. People living in the desert don't have to pray for rain when you have artificial mountains to manufacture them. The advancement of science and technology will enable the farmers to grow newer crops and people will have a surplus amount of food for survival.

We are lucky to see real mountains and natural farms, however, due to overpopulation and industrialization, the future generation may not be able to see the grasslands rather they will be visiting the artificial mountains for vacations and enjoy the man-made rain. The constant up-gradation of lifestyle and the urge to live and work in a skyscraper is transforming green places into concrete jungles. People living near nature always have to move towards these concrete jungles to get a job hence, there's always a chance of total annihilation of nature for survival.

The hill stations may not stay there because there will be intruders to convert those places into places of benefits and the locals won't revolt because they want jobs. The success of a state depends on its progress, not happiness now. The happiness factor is no more considered to be a criterion for a progressive state which is why people are destroying mountains and extracting minerals to survive.

 It's a recurring process, firstly they are destroying places and then they are trying to fix it, however, building artificial mountains in dry areas surely create hopes for more greenery while vertical farming in crowded places will eradicate hunger. Technology for reconstructing nature without manipulating its core surely makes a good idea, however, appreciating the resources, which we have now play a greater role in making this world a much happier place.

Friday, May 06, 2016

Spiderman Is The Greatest Hero In Captain America: Civil War - Otherwise the Movie Is Full Of Surprising Clich├ęs!

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The hype, the superheroes and the unlimited praise from critics made me watch this movie and I made an effort to see the first show. Critics slammed Batman V Superman: Dawn Of Justice which was not that bad hence I thought of wearing a critic's hat for this movie. Winter Soldier makes the first appearance and the plot starts taking shape as predicted. What makes this movie better than Batman V Superman? Why it's called the greatest superhero movie of all time? Captain America: Civil War is all about friends fighting among themselves which were hilariously showcased. You are destined to like Vision's humor and philosophy, Iron Man's witty one-liners, Ant-Man's surprising superpower and Zemo's role in this power packed superhuman battle.

The audience including me found giggling between the fights and it was all fun, though. All the superheroes are brilliant in this movie however I personally liked the young Spiderman - A fresh entry into the Marvel Cinematic Universe (MCU). He lights up the movie with his actions and conversations. Although the movie is titled after Captain America, a lesser known superhero than Batman, Superman, Iron Man and Spiderman in India, Steve Rogers aka Captain America contribute one extremely brilliant moment in the whole film but I personally like the way Winter Soldier aka Bucky stole the limelight before the entry of Spiderman in the movie.

Not to forget Black Panther, the new breakout superhero in the movie did showcase his prowess with utter ease. Captain America: Civil War will create box office records for sure but you won't demand for a second viewing, unlike Batman V Superman. Typical of Marvel, the movie is less dark but uses a more clear and practical approach. This movie is a thorough entertainer however the darkness and philosophical elements of this movie are far less that Batman V Superman.

There are lots of knockout moments in the movie and it scores well in the acting area. There are speeches that will give you goosebumps, there are conversations where relationships and bonding are well represented, and there is a hell lot of action for sure. Since it's a multi-starrer superhero movie; the movie will surely attract an audience. Which Side Are You On? – The key phrase will lure fans like bees to the theaters.


Captain America: Civil War is an admirable movie but not a movie to remember. Russo brothers made no mistake and kept the direction very crisp. There are hardly any mistakes in the movie. Captain America: Civil War is a feel good movie and you will definitely relate to underdog Spiderman or classy Iron Man after watching this movie. If you ask me - How's the movie - I would definitely recommend you to enjoy the fantastical universe of superheroes. I am sure, comic book fans won't let go this movie. Other characters like Black Widow, Falcon, War Machine, Hawkeye, Scarlet Witch, Sharon Carter, and Crossbones played their part well.


      

Also Appeared Here: The Huffington Post, India

Thursday, May 05, 2016

Different Types of Designer Salwar Suits Must Try In 2016

Written By: Paromita Sengupta

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You never know what life has concealed from you for the future or present day! Let’s stop being philosophical at least now and here we are to suggest you some of the best types of salwar suits that everyone must try in this year 2016. With changing trends and lots of fashion ideas, ethnic wear has always something special for everyone in every season.

Don’t you get bored of same styling in ethnic salwar suits and too much think when purchasing online designer salwar suits? What if your problems have an affordable solution? Yayyy...
Scroll down to discover different types of designer salwar suits that you haven’t tried yet and thus must get them all.

Rajasthani Trend


A favourite time of year – Summer vacations witness crazy travels and adventure tours (may or may not be with kids). And if you are planning to visit some of the famed cultural cities or countries, go with this Rajasthani hued salwar suit. It colourful shads will definitely magnetise lots of praised glances.

Multicolour Anarkali Suit


Thanks to Neeta Lulla and her divine designs! Steal the look designed by Neeta Lulla and go with multicoloured shades while online shopping for salwar suits. This Anarkali salwar suit has a vehement flare at the bottom and thus just enough to spruce up your moments.

Asymmetrical Top & Salwar Suit


Without some different punch in styling, there is nothing you can take so special in designer salwar suit. Isn’t it? Try this asymmetrical salwar suit set and show off your unparalleled persona. Catch this number with simple embroidery at the neck and loose salwar design. This year try various salwar suit designs because life is really too short to wait!

Harem Pant Suit


Summer is all about vibrant spirits and colours. So, start celebrating #summer2016 with latest ethnic trends like this one. With harem style salwar and hi–low kurti with dupatta, this salwar suit for women will display your uniqueness at any occasion. Go bare, without jewellery and other accessories but simply with nose ring or chain.

Dhoti Pants With Kurti


Adopt this evergreen androgynous fashion of dhotis with this dhoti style salwar suit. Never stop trying new styles and other types of designer suits as ‘stopping’ means death of fashion enthusiasm. Explore various colours and pocket styles with this type of ethnic wear. You can put on traditional tiara with it.

Floral Punch


Floral print trend never fades away. So try this georgette salwar suit with amazing natural prints and club this Indian ethnic wear with matching bangles and sleek neckpiece. Shopping for suits online get amazingly interesting when there is an interference of various prints.

Sharara Love


One of the classic yet best Indian style suits is sharara style salwar suit. With a flared salwar at the bottom half, this Indian ethnic wear is true royal symbol with border embroidery or stone works. Wear traditional jutti and antique gold tiara with this number to complete your look.