I am writing this after lots of introspection. This is an over thought piece of my mind that not only answers dilemmas of the urban residents but also gives them another chance to not think too much about their future. There’s nothing like the right time for anything happening in your life. If you are losing in every attempt to woo a girl of your dream, if you are not getting right kind of friend circle, if you are still sleeping alone, if you are still clueless about your life, this piece of mine will answer your queries. You might be wondering about the right age for everything in life. There’s nothing called the right age for anything. Right age is for the ordinary. It exudes mediocrity and I know if you are reading this you are no run of the mill person who wants to live a life approved by the so-called society at large. You are born to dream and you have those unseen wings beneath your arms. You want to rise from the ashes of destruction; you want to turn your weaknesses into your strength. You are a Spartan who can defeat any army with your skills. I know you have insecurities but insecurities are good. I know you have faced many hardships in life still, you are moving ahead. I know you have dreams to see the most beautiful corners of the earth, I know you want to drive a Merc one day, I know you want to date somebody who will not only understand your passion but also give you enough space to flaunt your madness, I know you want to experiment, I know you want to taste everything, I know you have a very open mind and you don’t judge people. You actually represent the elite class who can achieve anything in life.
People always think about the right age for everything. What’s the right age to get married, what’s the right age to have kids, what’s the right age for the first kiss, what’s the right time to break the barrier of loneliness, what’s the right age to retire, what’s the right age buy an iPhone, what’s the right age to buy a car, what’s the right age for sex, what’s the right age to make a world changing decision, what’s the right time to get published, what’s the right time to propose, what’s the right age to give a Roadies audition, what’s the right time to tell your parents about your sexual preferences, what’s the right time to get high, what’s the right age to tell your parents about your affairs, what’s the right time to travel the world, what’s the right time to post a Facebook update, what’s the right time to start a Blog, what’s the right time to tell yourself that you have to break your silence about your depression, what’s the right age to do things. There’s actually no right age for anything in this world. It’s all about your inclination and passion for doing something. Late bloomer is a myth. You can achieve anything anytime and you will be appreciated anytime. You don’t have to be the first mover.
If you want to achieve your dream, you have to fail thousand times before you get the approval. There’s nothing like tasting success after a series of failures. The urban population is moving at light speed. There’s so much competition going on. You can’t ignore the rat race, you have to face them, you have to take the baggage of insecurities and imperfectness along with you. You have to face the worst possible situation in your life to rise again. You can’t escape the ruthlessness of time; you can’t blame anyone for your failures. You won’t get your first Tinder date so easily, you can’t be the funniest stand-up comedian overnight, you can’t earn millions of dollars through your YouTube videos during the night, you have to dream, you have to stay awake at night, you have to do things that are beyond your comfort zone. I know it’s not easy but that’s the hymn for all the happiness in the world. You have to master the art of staying happy amid isolation and failure, you have to let go things those aren’t meant for you, you have to stop trying hard, you have to look ahead, and you have to see the silver lining that comes with the darkness. After all, Karma is a bitch and you get what you deserve sooner or later.